Abe Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 3 months after our "official" breakup. I started with NC. During these 3 months things on and off...she'd tell me she wanted to be with me...she even said she wanted to see about moving in with me. That changed 3 days after she said it. But she continued to tell me that she missed me...that she wanted to see me...but she never made any effort to see me. She'd tell me she would come over and spend a few days here....she always cancelled. 3 months of that and I was fed up. I told her that I was done talking to her...that she needed to make up her mind. I haven't spoken to my ex in a week. Its hard...very hard...but either I get over her...or she decides she knows what she wants
johan Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 3 months after our "official" breakup. I started with NC. During these 3 months things on and off...she'd tell me she wanted to be with me...she even said she wanted to see about moving in with me. That changed 3 days after she said it. But she continued to tell me that she missed me...that she wanted to see me...but she never made any effort to see me. She'd tell me she would come over and spend a few days here....she always cancelled. 3 months of that and I was fed up. I told her that I was done talking to her...that she needed to make up her mind. I haven't spoken to my ex in a week. Its hard...very hard...but either I get over her...or she decides she knows what she wants Good job, Abe. Sounds like she was stringing you along for some dumb reason. No reason to put up with that. Not sure how long you were together, but it's definitely hard if you love her. Hopefully she'll come around. Seems like she should have known what she wanted for sure before all this though. I'm sure you can do better.
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