Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 OKay well im 16 years old and i im confused right now,so i need some help.haha Anyways, well i knew this girl for over 2 years now and like just recently i went out on a date with her which ended up us hooking up. I asked this girl to homecoming and she said yes.Plus she goes to a diffrent school than me and she asked me to go with her to her homecoming. Well on with the confusing part i asked her out of curosity "what if i asked you out what would you say?" And she repiled "not to be mean but i would say no because right now i just wanna be friends with benifits but later on yeah i would go out with you." I really like this girl and thats not the answer i was hoping for but i guess i gotta wait till homecoming or something. So im just confused right now. What does she mean freinds with benifits?
portableversion Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 That means she wants to f***kkk you with no commitment, meaning, she can screw you AND your friends. As a 16 year old male, i'm sure you would be okay with this.
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 I think your wrong with the sex part.Shes a virgin,plus we both promised eatch other that we wouldnt flirt with other people. Plus if thats the case then why would she invite me to be her date for homecoming?
portableversion Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 Let me rephrase: SHe wants to be able to kiss and cuddle with you AND your friends. As for 'homecoming' she asked you cause she wanted to!
sami Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 She is looking for something more than a friendship but less than a commitment . Each party gets what he/she wants with a nice "thank you" at the end.
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 so i guess she praticully using me? But the wierd part is that we had a reallly long conversation about seeing other people and we both agreed that wouldnt.
933KJL Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 What does "hooking up" mean to a 16 yr old? I went out on a date and it ended up with us "hooking up"
SilentPrayer Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 Allrighty there little buddy, What she does mean is she does not want a relationship with the TITLE. She does not want to have the title of being your (Girlfriend) and you are her (Boyfriend). She does however want your companionship right now, and probably wants to get to know you first before she actually makes the plunge to date you exclusively. She invited you to her prom to show you that she cares and wants to introduce you to people that she knows. She invited you so obviously she likes you enough to take a change and show you off infront of her friends. FRIENDS with BENEFITS. Basically she is a virgin....she might want to get close to you to learn how a boys body works. What it does when she touches you a certain way that kind of thing. She probably just wants to get close to you because she thinks your HOT! Not much to it really kiddo. The girl likes you, but she is not sure if she should date you. She is a smart kid..and she is taking her time. If you want the girl all to yourself.....just take it slow. Don't date other girls...stay single and off market...let her know you think she is special. She will come around after that. If you really want to date the girl...then GO after her. Ask her @ prom if she would like to date you, make sure you tell her that it is just a "Test Run" to see if you are both compatable. I am sure that will eas off some stress about commitment with her. So try? Silent:love:
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 uh okay.thanks for the help... But i know this girl soo well and alos does she we used to go out! Shes my ex...
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 Well whatever thanks for the help you guys!
SilentPrayer Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 uh okay.thanks for the help... But i know this girl soo well and alos does she we used to go out! Shes my ex... If you know her so well...and you know all the right things..don't post and ask for advice. space head:rolleyes:
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