Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 OKay well im 16 years old and i im confused right now,so i need some help.haha Anyways, well i knew this girl for over 2 years now and like just recently i went out on a date with her which ended up us hooking up. I asked this girl to homecoming and she said yes.Plus she goes to a diffrent school than me and she asked me to go with her to her homecoming. Well on with the confusing part i asked her out of curosity "what if i asked you out what would you say?" And she repiled "not to be mean but i would say no because right now i just wanna be friends with benifits but later on yeah i would go out with you." I really like this girl and thats not the answer i was hoping for but i guess i gotta wait till homecoming or something. So im just confused right now. What does she mean freinds with benifits?
NTB Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 dude your 16 so really i don't wanna answer this but FWB usually means a sex only thing
ThumbingMyWay Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 it saddens me that kids at this age know what this FWB is....which basically means: I like you, I like your company and I would like to continoue sleeping with you....but I dont want to be committed and dont want to get emotional attached. Dude, you are young....theres alot of feelings and emotions with being intimate with someone. If you are not cofortable being a booty call....then I say move on and find a girl you can at least be exclusive with. FWB...I think in most cases....one of the parties will eventualy start to get emotionally involved and the other wont....and it will only lead to hurt and pain.
JadeStar Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 Friends With Benefits (FWB)= Basically she just wants to have sex with you. No commitment, no ties etc. You can date others, she can date others, she doesn't have to answer to you as far a b/f, g/f type of relationship. Lay down have sex, get up go your own way do your own thing until its time for some sex again. This is the way I have understood it to be anyway. Jade
NTB Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 so what if im 16? i think you should be looking for someone else to take to homecoming
JadeStar Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 it saddens me that kids at this age know what this FWB is....which basically means: I like you, I like your company and I would like to continoue sleeping with you....but I dont want to be committed and dont want to get emotional attached. Dude, you are young....theres alot of feelings and emotions with being intimate with someone. If you are not cofortable being a booty call....then I say move on and find a girl you can at least be exclusive with. FWB...I think in most cases....one of the parties will eventualy start to get emotionally involved and the other wont....and it will only lead to hurt and pain. I totally agree TMW, and I think this day and age some of them are getting younger and younger. Jade
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 No but i think all of guys are wrong with the sex part.Shes a virgin Plus we both promised eatch other that we wouldnt flirt with other people. Plus if thats the case then why would she invite me to be her date for homecoming?
JadeStar Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 Well wheather shes a virgin or not she must know a little about being a FWB for her to say that to you. Maybe if shes a virgin she wants you to be her first, but only in a FWB way. Meaning she doesn't want any ties from you etc. Then again maybe she isn't clear on what it means either. Jade
NTB Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 No but i think all of guys are wrong with the sex part.Shes a virgin Plus we both promised eatch other that we wouldnt flirt with other people. Plus if thats the case then why would she invite me to be her date for homecoming? well you said you and her just hooked up i imagine you mean kiss maybe she just wants a guy to make out with nothing more. maybe you should just ask her what she means that way your clear as to what she wants.
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 so i guess she praticully using me? But the wierd part is that we had a reallly long conversation about seeing other people and we both agreed that we wouldnt.
NTB Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 sounds like she is using you but like i said ask her just to clear up things
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 oh i danno why iddnt mention this but i know this girl soo well and also does she we used to go out! Shes my ex...
Author Ohio_isforLovers Posted September 28, 2005 Author Posted September 28, 2005 Well whatever thanks for the help you guys..!
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