I have cut my puppet strings!

[SilentPrayer]

Hello All,

 

Recently I have gotten into a pretty crazy arguement with an X. It is over a new girl he is seeing, and tons of lies she is spreading to him. I have no idea what I could have done to this girl to make her do this but she has something out for me. What I also have a prob with, is why would he sleep with her? She is not quite as pretty as I am..not that it matters...I know..It's what is on the inside that counts.

ANyhow she has done this before with other partners. Over and over again she has did this. She is very suave and calm about getting her way, I've noticed she can manipulate very easily. We have the same group of friends.

The big probleme here is I don't like her...I never have..and we have never been close. I have heard from alot of people she is is a trouble maker within groups. My X pretty much now HATES ME...like crazy. She is really doing quite a job. I choose not to argue with him..not to yell...to fight. I will remain calm...and wait....until he see's what I was talking about. Until he finds out what he is instore for. Until he finds out his so called sweet little BOTTOM HEAVY..idiot girl...is full of ****e....full of pipe dreams.,....seriously the girl has some issues as of now if she continues talking about me...I will make it my ISSUE!

I have patience...and I will see it through. Anyhow...that's my course of action.

He rencently added me back onto his MSN list??? Should I take him off block.

He was also off my msn list.....but I added him back today..but kept him on block...now I see him online. Do you think that he wants to speak to me?

 

I have no idea...but I kind of dont want to hear anything negative he has to say..but I also want to hear what he says.

 

Please...I really need this advice.

 

I've cut off my puppet strings that he holds....a long time ago. I don't know what to do. He still holds a special place in my heart.

 

Silent:confused:

[Mr.P]

I am in a very similar situation to you. My ex dumped me for a complete tosser. She is the only person who cannot see that he has manipulated her because she was mine, and he wanted her because she was mine. I've had problems with him spanning 11 years, and my ex still sends me messages begging to be friends (although I haven't heard from her in 7 days now).

 

I'd be interest in any comments to this situation too.

[SilentPrayer]

Hey Mr.P,

 

Thanks for the reply. It seems you have been the only one. I am thankfull just the same though.

 

I am sorry about the ex and the tosser. Some people like tossers...some people like smart people...some people just can't help but be attracted to someone else. What you can do for yourself is believe in Karma.

What goes around comes around. I suggest you keep living a good exsistance and work...live life...be with friends. Date if you want but I don't think you are all that ready to date without bringing in some past feelings into the present.

As for the girl you seem like a nice guy, she will notice u are very true soon enough and if not...she has lost and not you.

 

Whatever you do..don't stop your life for her. Continue doing whatever you like.

Sometimes....you need to make the contact. Just in some cases.

I for instance..made the 1st contact becaues I was wrong about alot of things...and I did say a few things out of anger, but I didn't lie.

Somethings just got twisted through the grape vine..but I cant bitch about it now..its the past..."so last week".

Anyhow..I said sorry...I also made a few mistakes...and I am very dreadfuly sorry. I feel really bad.

He was not mine @ the time..and I couldnt have expected him to remain faithful to someone he wasnt attached to.

So...end of that story..I made the 1st contact..I said sorry...and now we seem to be getting along great.

 

Im enjoying this peace of mind...and his company.

 

So KArma...does work.

 

Silently:love:

[Jayhawks]

I would take him off block. His heart is in control of his head now and he will have to find out himself if this gal is as you say. It sounds like you still see him as a good friend of yours so I would try to keep him as that and make contact.