depcharger Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Met a local woman online We connected Flirted instantly. Told me she loved her butt being grabbed in public and smacked in the bedroom. On several occasions she's been firm she wants NO marks on her breasts or butt I asked her out for drinks at popular local entertainment, restaurants area. same day we started talking Since we live within 5 miles She says she has work, kids, schedule to keep and can only meet Saturday or Sundays FYI she's in her 40s I'm in my 30s FYI her kids are preteen age FYI talked about her last long term bf Is she a) busy mom; free time only on weekends B) in a relationship already C) a player
kendahke Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Divorces are public records. Go to the county clerk and look up her divorce decree if you want to know. Some places will give you that information over the phone.
Cersei Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 This MILF will most definitely have a busy life with kids of that age. She may be dating others too. Have you talked about seeing only each other? Because if not she might be and has every right to.
kendahke Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Is she a) busy mom; free time only on weekends B) in a relationship already C) a player When you asked her, what was her answer? We wouldn't know because we don't know her nor are we dealing with her. 1
boymommy Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 This sounds like me! (In regards to the schedule conflicts, pretty standard for a busy mom). Did she say she is divorced or a single mom? My boys are with their dad every weekend so I used to tell men that I could only date on weekends because of my custody schedule. The no marks on her breasts/butt is a little odd. I would ask her (without being too nosy) why? Maybe its a weird personal preference, but it does sound strange to be honest. I wouldnt care if my boyfriend left marks on me because who is seeing them other then him? Thats common sense.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Why is she talking about marks on her body from rough sex when you haven't even met in person yet? Are the two of you only interested in sex with each other?
Author depcharger Posted August 23, 2019 Author Posted August 23, 2019 This sounds like me! (In regards to the schedule conflicts, pretty standard for a busy mom). Did she say she is divorced or a single mom? My boys are with their dad every weekend so I used to tell men that I could only date on weekends because of my custody schedule. The no marks on her breasts/butt is a little odd. I would ask her (without being too nosy) why? Maybe its a weird personal preference, but it does sound strange to be honest. I wouldnt care if my boyfriend left marks on me because who is seeing them other then him? Thats common sense. Fear of her love marks being discovered set off my Spidey senses, who would see her butt or breasts besides her lover?
boymommy Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Fear of her love marks being discovered set off my Spidey senses, who would see her butt or breasts besides her lover? Agreed, sounds suspicious.
kendahke Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Fear of her love marks being discovered set off my Spidey senses, who would see her butt or breasts besides her lover? Or she could be like me: I don't want black and blue marks on my body and I'm not seeing or showing it off to anyone. That tells me a level of pain is involved and I don't do pain. The last man to hit me that hard was my dad and he's been dead 43 years. Do some investigating and find out if she's in fact married or divorced. That should be the first point of order here.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Fear of her love marks being discovered set off my Spidey senses, who would see her butt or breasts besides her lover? Can't you just ask her? 1
boymommy Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Or she could be like me: I don't want black and blue marks on my body and I'm not seeing or showing it off to anyone. That tells me a level of pain is involved and I don't do pain. The last man to hit me that hard was my dad and he's been dead 43 years. Do some investigating and find out if she's in fact married or divorced. That should be the first point of order here. Agreed but according to OP’s info all she said was liked her butt being grabbed in public and smacked in the bedroom. That sounds pretty tame to me so unless he is really whaling on her or grabbing her lots of force I would not think thats going to leave marks. I don’t know, it could be nothing, could be something. Hard to tell.
Author depcharger Posted August 23, 2019 Author Posted August 23, 2019 Agreed but according to OP’s info all she said was liked her butt being grabbed in public and smacked in the bedroom. That sounds pretty tame to me so unless he is really whaling on her or grabbing her lots of force I would not think thats going to leave marks. I don’t know, it could be nothing, could be something. Hard to tell. It fizzled out, After more sexual flirting She abruptly blocked me when I said I didn't know when I'd be done with work No MILF sex for me. Sex drought continue. But Spidey senses went off, I really don't want any complicated stressful situation as a result my little head wanting attention 1
preraph Posted August 23, 2019 Posted August 23, 2019 Well, just ask her! I mean, you DO have a right to know if someone you're dating is married. 1
kendahke Posted August 24, 2019 Posted August 24, 2019 She abruptly blocked me Return the favor and cut the energy flow. Redirect it in a positive direction for you. Don't entertain foolishness.
The Outlaw Posted August 24, 2019 Posted August 24, 2019 Since she decided abruptly block you, let her actions speak for themselves. She wasn't worth it. She was looking for sex. Not a relationship.
boymommy Posted August 24, 2019 Posted August 24, 2019 It fizzled out, After more sexual flirting She abruptly blocked me when I said I didn't know when I'd be done with work No MILF sex for me. Sex drought continue. But Spidey senses went off, I really don't want any complicated stressful situation as a result my little head wanting attention I am sorry to hear that. Having done lots of online dating I would decide what it is you are looking for going into interactions with women. Are you looking for a hookup, fwb, long-term relationship potential? I understand you are a guy and want sex but trust me it may take longer to get it if you keep entertaining milfs. If I were you, I would try to find something real and lay off the sex talk right away. Plenty of time to find out bedroom preferences later on.
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