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Having trouble getting over him


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Look at my previous posts if you want some back story.

 

It is over now and has been for some time but I still think about this man every day and feel so down about it. I've taken this one hard - we only dated for 6 months and it's been harder getting over than both my previous and significantly longer LTRs. I feel like I fell in love with this man and that we went really well together. The last time we spoke he said he is having some personal /financial issues but he does want to and will see me again - I know these were just words to keep me on the backburner so I've stopped contacting him now.

 

He's blocked on my social media and number deleted. I'm struggling to move on, I've tried looking again on the dating apps but my heart isn't in it. Any tips on how I can leave this behind once and for all?

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Focus on different things. Given how focused you still are on him, you're not ready for a new relationship. Focus on your own life, your goals, new friends.

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Time is the only answer. There is no button to push to make this go away. Understand it's a normal process of mourning the end of a relationship. Spend time with your family and your girl friends, start a new hobby, get netflix and cookie dough ice cream. Be kind to yourself and it will go away.

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