Myasylum Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 So I've ask all of two girls out since my divorce and let me tell yea... it doesn't get any easier. Maybe I'm just being insecure or what have you... but it's tricky... especially this one! Girl at auto parts store. It's unusual enough as it is... but this girl is super cute, and she always recognizes me and super friendly. Seems like a good start I guess... but she's surrounded by guys. 90 percent of the clientele are men and all the employees are men... and it's just difficult being another man... surrounded by all men! I'm not sure how to go about this. Maybe I shouldn't care what others think... but it sure makes for an awkward situation. Any ideas?
PRW Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 I'd say forget about it and walk away. She is friendly because that is part of her job. She is treating all those others the same way. She isn't treating you "special". A woman who is "super cute" and surrounded by men has got more options than she knows what to do with and probably has a BF or is married anyway. Have a social life and meet women that way. Stop messing with women who are on the job.
alphamale Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 you work with her? don't even ask her you're a customer? ask her out and then find another store to go to
mortensorchid Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 I think she is just being friendly towards you because it's part of her job to be so. If she is a coworker, don't go there. If you are a customer it might be against the rules if you as a customer ask out an employee or vice versa.
Author Myasylum Posted August 20, 2019 Author Posted August 20, 2019 I'm a customer. Yea, I thought about both of you said. I agree with both of you. She has to have plenty of options. And it is her job to be nice, but it's different (of course it is). She speaks to me as a friend not a customer. I've been the enough. Tells me things about her private life, kind of letting me in. So yea, ask her out and never go back again.
alphamale Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 She speaks to me as a friend not a customer. I've been the enough. Tells me things about her private life, kind of letting me in. she likes you as a friend, not as a lover
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