Itsjustme2000 Posted August 19, 2019 Posted August 19, 2019 I want to know from starting the conversation to gettingthe first date.
SophieG Posted August 19, 2019 Posted August 19, 2019 Send an eggplant emoji. Please don’t :lmao: that was always a huge turn off for me (depending on what the girl is looking for). I always liked a guy that started with something more orignal than : « Hi, how are you? ». I’m attracted to humor, so a funny guy wins point in my book. I usually agree to a date after naturally flowing conversation... and anything sexual was a no go. 1
an0nym0us123 Posted August 19, 2019 Posted August 19, 2019 Speaking as a guy the most progress you will make will be with girls who initiate contact first. Normally if they do its pretty easy to get them to agree on a date. I normally leave it a day or two, to see if they message if not try and find something about their profile to comment on. Sometimes there isn't much to go on though. Usually if I initiate there's only like a 40% chance they will reply. But hey, what do yo have to lose? 1
Cersei Posted August 19, 2019 Posted August 19, 2019 Definitely make a comment or ask a question about one of the pictures she has posted. 1
Fekenaws Posted August 20, 2019 Posted August 20, 2019 Great question! In my opinion, the absolute best thing you can do is say something totally insane as the first message. People will usually respond to insanity because they're confused. "Then follow up by saying sorry I was just drunk, you're cute though so that's gotta count for something", and proceed to have a normal conversation. I've gotten several girls to agree to come over with that tactic 1
twatwa123 Posted August 21, 2019 Posted August 21, 2019 My best Tinder tip is for you to delete Tinder.
Twizzlestick Posted August 21, 2019 Posted August 21, 2019 It is the most vacuous thing going, full of flakers, window shoppers, wife swappers, insta attention seekers and robots. Even when you get a chat going it often evaporates. It’s not down to you, usually one of the above reasons. Reading tinder profiles is like reading one long copied and pasted moaning list “don’t be like this”, “if you don’t like pink dogs with short legs it ain’t gonna work” . Shows you the level you’re working with on a lot of the profiles. It’s a right turn off. So don’t take it seriously. For the above reason I’ve stopped putting much thought into it and usually send a cheeky or out there note to kick off. Maybe something on their bio and joke a bit. If they’ve a blank profile I usually send something like “amazed reading your bio you spent 12 years in the circus as a juggler” Or something equally odd. There’s stacks of profiles moaning that they don’t like “hi” so if they’ve not bothered their backside to hand info to work with in the first place, I just take the mick a bit. Often works If they come back and after 3 messages feels like you’re pulling teeth I don’t bother after that. I’ve had good chats with some so no need to do all the donkey work on people who can’t talk. 1
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