Author spiderowl Posted August 17, 2019 Author Posted August 17, 2019 It sounds like neither of us are interested in more but he has been making an effort and I got the impression he does want more - things that he's said and done. For example, he has suggested we go away together on several occasions and I have been the one that did not go for it. The reason I didn't was lack of time due to work and also because of the restricted diet thing. He prefers to cook at home than go out to eat, which does not seem much fun to me.
rainbow12 Posted August 17, 2019 Posted August 17, 2019 (edited) It sounds like neither of us are interested in more but he has been making an effort and I got the impression he does want more - things that he's said and done. For example, he has suggested we go away together on several occasions and I have been the one that did not go for it. The reason I didn't was lack of time due to work and also because of the restricted diet thing. He prefers to cook at home than go out to eat, which does not seem much fun to me. Spiderowl he's the one beginning to think you just want to be friends with him and he's right. He's trying everything to spend time with you and knows about your restricted diet so to make things easier he decided to cook for you, You have a restricted diet? or do you mean time restricted diet? Your circumstances is better if you eat indoors and find some recipes. He's trying to find easier route for you and...I understand about the work time. Edited August 17, 2019 by rainbow12
Author spiderowl Posted August 18, 2019 Author Posted August 18, 2019 Spiderowl he's the one beginning to think you just want to be friends with him and he's right. He's trying everything to spend time with you and knows about your restricted diet so to make things easier he decided to cook for you, You have a restricted diet? or do you mean time restricted diet? Your circumstances is better if you eat indoors and find some recipes. He's trying to find easier route for you and...I understand about the work time. Thank you for your input rainbow and sorry I did not make things clear. He has a restricted diet and it is not for health reasons, it is due to concern for the environment. He does not really like to go out to restaurants but will do occasionally to meet for a coffee. I know I have been reluctant and that he has tried but, as I said, it is these incompatibilities that have made me hold back. I sent him an sms this evening to see if he was free in the near future and have had no reply hours later. I feel really irritated at this and it is fairly common not to hear back for hours. I think I need to withdraw from this 'relationship' altogether. It is not going anywhere and I do not feel he is treating me well.
rainbow12 Posted August 18, 2019 Posted August 18, 2019 (edited) You should distant yourself from him for awhile and you're right you can't be compatible with him because he leaves you hanging on without getting back to you for hours, he seems to be indecisive about the relationship with you as well because he doesn't talk about relationships he just changes the subject. He chats about things that disinterest you so yes you are better off as friends who see a lot less of each other. Just keep it polite and simple with him, when you have space from him you will start to realise more. Edited August 18, 2019 by rainbow12
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