Rollnrock Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 So I met this girl online, we chatted for awhile before we met up. The first date was amazing, we met up for a 2nd date the next day and we kissed. I met her for 3rd date a week after, i felt that our chemistry was amazing. She came to my place after and left after we did it. 3 days has passed since and she’s been kinda cold and distant to me? She’s still replying my texts but it felt cold and the time in between her replies are really Long. Was it something that I did? What’s going on here? Help, I’m so confused.
robertmessi123456 Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 She's most likely found another guy it is a quite common scenario
schlumpy Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 That's online dating and having sex on the 3rd date was right on schedule. It's time to reset and start all over.
The Outlaw Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 I've been there before. If she's cold and distant but still chatty, she's lost interest. Move on, she isn't worth it.
SumGuy Posted August 12, 2019 Posted August 12, 2019 Unlikely anything you did or didn't do. Maybe she got caught up in the chemistry of the moment but on further thought wasn't sure. Maybe something very stressful occurred in her life and she has a hard time focusing being "on" in text with you. There are so many possible reasons, most of which have nothing to do with you. I'd say it doesn't hurt to ask her out again, but give her space and if she is busy leave it with her to get back to you if she wants to go out again. I wouldn't wait around though.
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