Thedubman Posted August 10, 2019 Posted August 10, 2019 The first date went very well, we went out for drinks then afterwards went on a nice long walk and had great conversation. Made it back to the car talked even more, made out for a while then parted ways. 2nd date she invited me over to her house to watch a movie. Watched liked 15 minutes of the movie and basically had sex and cuddled for the rest of the time I was over. Would it be wierd to offer to pick her up for today’s date because I already been to her house one time and we already took it all the way or am I getting to comfortable asking something like that? What should I do?
Rayce Posted August 10, 2019 Posted August 10, 2019 Since you were already at her house and already having sex... so why not! Go for it! Have fun! It sounds like that is a great idea! 1
Author Thedubman Posted August 10, 2019 Author Posted August 10, 2019 Since you were already at her house and already having sex... so why not! Go for it! Have fun! It sounds like that is a great idea! Thanks for the advice! Was just worried about coming across as creepy. Trust me, if the first two dates were conservative I would not even think of asking this
Ruby Slippers Posted August 10, 2019 Posted August 10, 2019 It would be weird not to offer after having sex on date 2. Men always offer to pick me up for date 2, after a non-sexual date 1, and I accept. 1
JEG88 Posted August 10, 2019 Posted August 10, 2019 After the first date, I always offer since I feel it's the gentlemanly thing to do. I'm not pushy or weird about it though, and no matter if they accept/decline I'm good with it since comfort level will differ from woman to woman. I also tend to have pretty conservative first/second dates, so that probably plays into it as well.
The Outlaw Posted August 10, 2019 Posted August 10, 2019 I don't see it as being weird since you've already had sex. 1
preraph Posted August 10, 2019 Posted August 10, 2019 Pick her up, but don't try to have sex before the date unless she takes it in that direction. Pick her up like a gentleman, go on the date, and come back and fool around. Date night! 2
mortensorchid Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 I don't see why that would be an issue. You're starting a relationship, you had sex already so ... There's nothing creepy about that. I would, however, put some caution into the fact that you had sex on your 2nd date. The last serious relationship I had started off that way, he and I had sex on our 2nd date. I think, looking back, that was a mistake. I should have made him wait a bit longer for it. However, we stayed together for 6 months (it was not a hookup), and he broke it off because I wasn't taking care of him like he wanted me to. He was an Alpha Male aka Bad Boy and used to women taking care of him.
chillii Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 l really don't get the order of things these days, well if forums are anything to go by.. l mean you slept with her , you effd around with each others bits, but what picking her up is somehow ranked way above and more personal than that and an internet thread worthy . Think l was born in the wrong generation for this stuff 1
Maggiemay1 Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 She doesn’t care for values. She invited you to hers after one date and had sex with you within 15 minutes of arriving at hers. She doesn’t care about dating. Or traditions. And neither do you. So why the question??
Redhead14 Posted August 11, 2019 Posted August 11, 2019 (edited) I don't think it matters much at all. She isn't safety minded because she invited a virtual stranger to see where she lives and then proceeded to have sex with him within 15 minutes. So I don't think she would find it weird and she probably wouldn't think it was weird if you then had sex in your car afterwards. Why the need to try to observe some kind of boundaries now? LOL If you're trying to return to some sense of dating decorum and civility/seriousness, remember that bells cannot be unrung . . . Edited August 11, 2019 by Redhead14 1
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