Shana Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Sounds like a dumb thread but just read on. My birthday was a month ago, I wanted a specific gift, a gift that should be pick out by me, which is great. So the s/o says ok, we have to get you your gift, a week goes by and now almost a month and in normal conversation he says, oh by the way we need to get you your gift. Yeah ok. Now.. I am too the point where ya know what? I don't want the dam present! My birthday is long gone now and I wanted it then.. Selfishness kicking in you think? Am I wrong to feel this way? On his birthday I always make is super special. His family does nothing for him so i buy a cake and all the fancy stuff and really celebrate his day. Not to mention he gets what he wants whatever the cost and I produce the gift ON HIS SPECIAL day! Christmas is coming and I was told to write my list down... maybe I should put the gift I wanted on the list? And it be the only thing on my list... maybe he'll get the hint? I am not materialistic or anything of the sort but hey, I make way less $$ then he and I seem to be the one who goes for my lungs in getting him the things he needs and wants.. I am just feeling sad that a month later I have no birthday gift.. If he was not going to get me anything to begin with then fine.. really, i am ok with that! But don't say this is what your getting and we have to go and pick it out.. and it never happens.. Grrr!
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