l2hvn Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 guys, how come it's so hard for you to say these three words?
Art_Critic Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 I Love You .. there I said.. and it wasn't hard at all
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Its only hard to say sincerely if you aren't entirely sure you mean it. I'd much rather a man not say it to me, than to say it insincerely.
JS17 Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Its only hard to say sincerely if you aren't entirely sure you mean it. I'd much rather a man not say it to me, than to say it insincerely. There is absolutely nothing worse than hearing I Love You or I'm In Love With You when they don't mean it.
whichwayisup Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Don't say it until you FOR SURE know it's the right time. There's nothing worse than hearing a fake I love you too because one happened to let it slip on out.
lost_in_chgo Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Very easy to say when you feel it. Almost as easy to lie and say it for some people. The hardest thing to do is to not say anything back when someone says it to you.
Author l2hvn Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 it's easy to say it to a family member yet so hard to say it to your significant other.... *sigh....
Author l2hvn Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 I Love You .. there I said.. and it wasn't hard at all i feel the love!!!
Woggle Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 I heard I love you this past weekend and I said it back which scared the crap out of me bcause we both meant it. Love is a very scary word.
leeroy1985 Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 Im a guy and i dont find it hard to say 'I LOVE YOU' If you dont then dont say it, if you do then say it... simple as, as far as im concerned anyway. I tell my fianceé i love her all the time, everytime we finish a telephone convo, at the end of every text msg, when i drop her off at home on a night and at random points in the day when i look at her and feel lucky to have such a beautiful, caring person to share my life with! Why is it that it is the men that get the "why are you afraid to say i love you" thingy? Do women never have doubts and not know wether its the right time to say it? Do women never say "i love you" when they dont mean it?
Author l2hvn Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 Why is it that it is the men that get the "why are you afraid to say i love you" thingy? Do women never have doubts and not know wether its the right time to say it? Do women never say "i love you" when they dont mean it? well i've been wanting to say it to my bf (we've been going on 6mos!) and find myself holding it in because i'm afraid he'll just say "thank you?!" (i have never said it first in all of my relationships)... i do feel the love from him. and after all, actions do speak louder than words.. i know he cares about me a lot... but it would be especially nice to hear him say that....
fusangite Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 guys, how come it's so hard for you to say these three words?Because they sometimes repel someone and cause them to stop falling in love with you?
Tankgirl Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 well i've been wanting to say it to my bf (we've been going on 6mos!) and find myself holding it in because i'm afraid he'll just say "thank you?!" .. I think thats the risk of I LOVE YOU. You give it when YOURE ready. There is no way to be sure the other person will respond the same. He may indeed love you. But sometimes saying it out loud can be a different story. If you feel it is time for you to offer those words. Offer them carefully and freely without waiting for a response. Its a gift. Not a test or leverage. All the best So happy youre in love!!
Nyasa Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 I think some guys just have a hard time expressing those feelings outloud, especially if they have been burned or if they grew up in an enviroment where it wasn't said often. My boyfriend said it to me first, but I knew it was hard for him to say and I could just tell he loved me by looking at him, he didn't have to say it, but I am greatful he did. Now that he said he though he does not feel compelled to say it everyday. He grew up without a mother and a very manly dad and I think he still is uncomfortable with saying it all the time, just wasn't and isn't the norm for him, I know this b/c he tells me so. I asked him straight out, why don't you always say it and why do you hesitate if I do and he said "point blank i do love you, but it's still hard for me to say it." i believe that. when he does say it, it means so much, makes it specail. some people throw around the word a lot and that makes some people uncomfortable. I am a total "love, love, love" person, I say it to my family and friends all the time, but I have to understand that's weird for some people (even my mom b/c she grew up in a house hold where it was rarely ever said, her mother was very cold) and if they don't respond, doesn't always mean they don't love you, you know when someone loves you, there are many other ways to show it. it is just words you know. my ex and i used to overuse the word so much and at the end of our realtionship we both admitted we ruined the word. now when my new guy says it i feel like i fall in love with him all over again b/c i know it's sincere.
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