Savannah1990 Posted August 4, 2019 Posted August 4, 2019 (edited) Hi everyone! About a week ago, a handsome guy send me a DM on Facebook. We were already friends on Facebook and we are in the same sports, and both semi-professional in it, so that’s why we already knew about each other’s existence. He started the conservation on Messenger with a ‘hi there, how are you? Enjoying your free time from sports or are you missing it?’. And since then, we are chatting with each other every day. Sending long messages to each other, in which we talk about everything. Sports, our work, other hobbies, dreams and hopes for the future, past relationships, family, our character etc. It’s such a pleasant and personal chat. He looks good, but he also comes across as a sweet, humble and good guy. I wouldn’t mind meeting him in real life. Now, he lives in a City that’s about 1,5hour travelling from my place. And now he’s saying some things that I find hard to interpret. Is he using it as a ‘hint’ to meet me IRL, or is it just saying nothing? - We were talking about the area in which he lives. I told him that I don’t know that much about the area in which he lives, except a swimming pool that’s in the area there. And than he said ‘you should really explore more of my area!’ I reacted to that with ‘yeah, I should’. And than we started talking about something else. - He just today told me, out of the blue: ‘I should really explore the area in which you live. I don’t really know it, and would like to know more about it’. Is this now some sort of hint, that he would like to meet me or something? I’m gonna react with :’yeah, you should. If you like it, I can show you some places’. But maybe, that’s not even his intentions? It’s so subtle, the way he communicaties. I mean, I guess that he’s sort of interested, other wise he would not DM me and keep the conservation going for over a week. He asks me a lot of questions and tells alot about himself. But, on the other hand, he does not really ‘flirts’ with me (like, compliments about how i look for instance). He told me that he used to be shy and insecure. Is this his way to make clear that he wants to meet? I’m not used to this kind of communication. Normally, guys just ask upfront: would you like to meet? Edited August 4, 2019 by Savannah1990
Foxhall Posted August 4, 2019 Posted August 4, 2019 well you are clearly interested in the chap, so go with your instinct and say that about "showing him some places" one would expect him to show a bit more decisiveness then though and ask you out. He is likely a sensitive chap and is hesitant to ask you out straight for fear of rejection, he could be playing games too and "waiting for you to come onto him" as it were, ah wel throw that line in sure anyway and see!
smackie9 Posted August 5, 2019 Posted August 5, 2019 Yes! he is hinting....here's a tip: A guy doesn't spend days messaging long detailed conversations for no reason. He wants to date you....so just ask him to come out and you will show him around.
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