jhurtinct Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 my first thread on the subject: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t70621/ Now problem still exists. I'm helping him pick out tiles and paint for the basement he is/we were remodeling, yet I still haven't seen the progress because I still won't go there. He knows how I feel and he has been sleeping here almost every night of the week, it's crazy, he showered here which is added to everything that is pissing my mother off (her life is disrupted me, her grandchild*which is the only thing she doesn't mind*, my 2 cats and huge dog, now him every night) I can't blame her. I feel for her:) His friend asked him if he wanted him to leave and my bf's response was when I do you'll be the 1st to know, which I didn't like, I thought maybe something like"well maybe u can start looking now, but no rush" It upset me:mad: So he says 1st counseling to be sure we've covered everything and don't ever have to go through this again, I've called 3 diff offices noone returns my call. That makes me upset:mad: (I just want to stop being and be:laugh: again) I just don't know what to do I'm so happy when we are together, but when we are apart or we have to sleep in a bed 1/2 the size of the bed at HIS house, in my mothers spare room no less I get very moody which puts tension between us. I just wish his friend would get the clue and go, I would feel very uncomfortable if it was me my bf is never home in his own house. What to do What to do, just need to vent, opinions pls.
Author jhurtinct Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 I know this is a long post and so is the link but can someone give me advice pls. I'm sorry I wanted to talk to him about it tonight some more when he comes over and I don't know if its the right thing to do or if I should just let it alone awhile longer. Thank you
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