dcsmom97 Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 When you are "taking things slow" and just starting off as friends and seeing where it goes, how much or what kinds of things should you know about a person after just 2 months? Thanks for your thoughts and opinions!
Copingsaw Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 I don't think there is a good answer to your question, especially since it is so general. Depending on the people involved, it could be anywhere from just a little bit to a whole lot. If you want to be specific about your situation, you might get better feedback.
Author dcsmom97 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 *Met guy in Aug. *Talk on the phone 4-5 times a week *No sex, but we have kissed and hugged for an extended time *Live 45 minutes apart *see each other every other weekend *Guy was in 8 year relationship until this past Feb. Me - Separated in 01/04, Divorced 10/04 after 7 1/2 years *Friends and seeing where it's going
downcydeguy Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 Yea, in today's "grow up as quickly as possible" world, 2 months is an eternity for some. I met my girlfriend when she was an 18 year old virgin and we had sex 1 month later. However, her friend sticks to a 3 month rule. Just go with the flow and let it take it's course naturally.
elijahBailey Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 Go slow. The dating scene is on steroids these days. I believe that things gotten in a hurry doesn't endure.
Mary3 Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 How much should you know ? You should after 2 months if he is romantic , if he treats you good, what kind of all around person he is...there's lots you have learned and will continue to learn more. He should go slow and so should you. Thats how you learn about that person and decide if they are worth having a relationship with
SuperMonk Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 let things continue as they are, or if you want the relationship to progress to the point where you are hungry for some action from him, then just use some physical magic of yours to let him know, you want some wild thrusting fun.
Author dcsmom97 Posted September 29, 2005 Author Posted September 29, 2005 Thanks so much for the input. I initially thought that dating wouldn't be such a big deal - I am 36 years old. But after 10 years, the whole dating scene is totally different! I realize now that I do not have a clue!
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