BJP1991 Posted July 23, 2019 Posted July 23, 2019 Seen a girl 3 times now - have been good dates and the other night she cooked me dinner. We have been sexually active as well. All in all, I’m really happy with how things are going Context aside, at the end of our dinner date (when she cooked for me) the other night, she said she would call me later in the week or over the weekend. She is gone all week, so until then it’s not like I would be able to see her. She said I could call or text her too, if I want. Basically, should I wait the whole 5-6 days to when she said she would call me? Or should I reach out a little sooner, maybe via text, to nail down definite plans for our next date (which we talked about having early next week before she has another weeklong vacation). This girl has told me she likes calling over texting, but with her trip all week a call might not be most suitable. Basically, the question is: if a woman you’re seeing tells you they’ll call you in like 6 days, do you honestly just hold out and wait? Or do you take some initiative and get the ball rolling to make definite plans with her? Also, I’m not a fan of texting everyday until I get further along with a woman - so I don’t plan to just hit her up every other day either. Was thinking about reaching out maybe Thursday/Friday this week. Thoughts?
Gmartz Posted July 23, 2019 Posted July 23, 2019 Yeah, why not wait it out? I would. I'd let her reach out once she's done with the trip and ready to hangout. Makes you not seem too eager. Gives her some space. I know there's that thought "she'll think I'm not interested" and I think that's ok. As long as when she does call, you personally set some plans to see her. When she does call, tell her you want to see her.
Flame Aura Posted July 23, 2019 Posted July 23, 2019 Did you really need to create another topic asking the exact same thing, how long to wait before calling/texting? Did you not read any of the answers in your previous thread??? Do you need someone to tell you how to do everything? 1
d0nnivain Posted July 23, 2019 Posted July 23, 2019 Of course you can text her or call to set up the next date. I think she was merely giving you the heads up that this was a busy week for her.
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