quidasha Posted July 21, 2019 Posted July 21, 2019 I've [19M] been dating this girl [18F] for almost three months now, the first month went well but after that I just don't really feel a connection with her anymore. The problem is this, one of her closer friends and I both like each other. They're both still in high school, senior year, so I feel like there's a roadblock because they still have that high school drama mentality, and the girl I'm seeing is definitely a girl who would gossip behind my back if a situation happened where her friend and I started seeing each other, I don't know how to approach this situation. The girl I'm seeing is still a sweet girl and she deserves to be happy but I can't see her and I working out.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 21, 2019 Posted July 21, 2019 Dating your current squeeze's good friend is likely to always cause some bad blood, regardless of age. Nobody is going to like that; it's not a "highschool drama" issue. You simply need to decide if it's worth the risk. I personally think it would be unwise, but since you already sound like you've decided you would go for it, be prepared for the fall-out. Regardless of whether or not you choose to pursue her friend, please let go of the current girl. You know you're not into her enough, so it's best to set her free so she can meet someone who reciprocates her interest.
smackie9 Posted July 21, 2019 Posted July 21, 2019 You are best to breakup and make yourself scarce from that group. There are plenty of other girls to date...try out of your area. That is what I did. I made sure I met someone in a different city so when it came time to move on, it was much easier...never ran into them again.
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