Went on a date with a solid 9 tonight. Didn't go terribly well/not bad but

[the big t]

So this woman I met on match a week ago and been texting back and forth with we agreed to a date on sat. Anyway, we were texting today and she said her friend cancelled plans so I asked lets me up tonight so you're not bored. She actually agreed to it and drove an hour.

 

Anyway, the woman is actually HOTTER than her match photos and facebook photos. My caller id shows her last name so I looked her up that way and everything checked out so I knew she was a real deal.

 

Anyway, she's a solid 9 when she walks in. We hug (friendly type hug) and sit down. She's a bit shy though just like she sounded in texting and on the phone.

 

Overall pretty friendly BUT verysnobbish. Like she wanted me to describe my business more so I had to be more honest and described it as an indoor fleamarket. And she gave a chuckle and snobby remark about being a fleamarket:( I explained to her some vendors make big money there and I myself make okay money as well.

 

The whole time she's fairly friendly but again snobbish like she's better than everyone else and described on a number of occasions how she didn't like meeting new people in town because people make comments about her and word spreads around.

 

I knew she was divorced. She told me for 8 years and that her teacher friends wanted her to meet some new people so told her to sign up on the dating site. She met a couple people from it but the way she described it they were losers and a lot of the guys uneducated. She said she was basically doing it for her friends. She said her husband just basically got tired of being married and wanted a divorce.

 

Remind you, this woman is a solid looks a 9. She was also a college athlete and bragged about her state records.

 

She sounds like the type who's very snobbish and very picky. A woman like her looks wise should not be on the internet. The type that guys drop her after a couple dates that they wont touch her after that.

 

Anyway it lasted about an hour. She wanted to pay, at least her part and went to dig in her purse but I stopped her and covered it all. We walked around for a few mins afterwards and then decided to leave. She had a race to run in and be up early 4 and had to drive an hour. I could tell she wanted to leave to so I didn't press it. I did walk to her car and we hugged.

 

As I said, very beautiful woman. I'm really shocked though she agreed to go on a date with me. I mean, I'm not ugly but barely 5-9 she's listed as 5-8 on her profile but IMO was more like lower end 5-7 next to me but everyone lies about that lol. I'd figure she's go after a 6-1 200lb type athletic guy. I workout but not the almost pro level like she does.

 

She did make a comment when we were starting to finish up about she found someone she can watch ball games with sometime. She doesn't own a tv but is a fan of the same team as me.

 

I didn't like the comment she made about my business without knowing the finances of it. I kind of had to spin it. I thought that was mean. If I were the woman and a guy said that I'd excuse myself and end it.

 

Overall she was still fairly friendly. But she seemed to be a narcissist though describing her.

 

Still I'm a bit bummed though. I actually didn't feel that nervous though like I thought. Even when she walked in and looked far hotter than online. She seemed my shy and such. I kinda saw when how hot she was the way she would be so in my mind I kinda prepared for it.

 

Still, it's online dating and I got a date with a woman who looks like a solid 9 out of 100s of messages she gets so there had to be at least something she saw in me and being I'm 5 years younger too.

[the big t]

Even though it's unlikely she will hangout with me again should I send her a text in a couple days saying thanks?

[alphamale]

don't contact her again

[Trail Blazer]

Good work! Well done. I doubt you'll get a second date, but if you do, just be mindful of what you want to get out of it. For mine, she sounds way too high maintenance to date for any length of time. Her husband probably wasn't over being married, he was over being married to her.