noname321 Posted July 18, 2019 Posted July 18, 2019 Hi guys I met a girl on AshleyMadison.com below is our email exchange so far (names and email addresses have been removed):- On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 16:07, AM GIRL wrote: hello this is <AM Girl> from AM hope you are doing good On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 08:49, noname321 wrote: Hi <removed> I'm doing great thanks. Do you fancy meeting up sometime? We can meet somewhere public first just in case you're a crazy axe murderer trying to lure guys to their doom using photos of a sexy girl. A guy can't be too careful these days I live in <removed> in a discreet studio flat. Can you send me a photo? <removed> On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 17:11, AM Girl wrote: sure why not and i am sure you can share urs also...... On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 10:49, noname321 wrote: Cute cat! When are you next free? On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 18:52, AM Girl wrote: wow you so cute can you tell me more about yourself pls? On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 11:07, noname321 wrote: I have great friends and family. I'm blessed with health and talents that let me create some great things. I have socialised with people from almost all walks of life and can blend in and get on with most people. I'm a challenge, a bit elusive, vibrant, funny, fun to be with, sarcastic, not afraid to put you in your place or have a little verbal sparring back and forth. I am very open minded and a risk taker who is always up for some adventure. I am driven to do anything I set my mind to and once I get an idea in my head then watch out because I will probably make it happen. I can tell that you are a naughty and mischievous girl. What else can you tell me about yourself? On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 19:14, AM Girl wrote: well i really don't have much to say about myself i am just a simple lady that love to be around positive ppl i love honest and open minded person i am fun to be with and no dulling moment when you are with me i care so much and i really want to be spoil with love i am a very understanding lady On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 11:25, <noname321> wrote: Sounds good to me. Right now I want to focus on carefree fun and affection just laughing and fooling around, building connections with people and making the most of the time I have. So AM Girl when are you next free? On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 19:41, AM Girl wrote: i am always i busy person because i travel alot but sure i will always find a time for you noname321 This was a bad reply on my part:- On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 11:46, noname321 wrote: I'm busy too but I'm sure I can make the time for such a cute little thing like you. When you are next free let me know and I will see what I can do. Bye for now So I tried to fix it with this:- On Sat, 13 Jul 2019 at 15:20, noname321 wrote: Solis I know we are all really busy but I don't want you to be just that girl I met on Ashley Madison that's playing hard to get. If we don't make concrete plans to meet it will never happen so why not take a chance that we will have a good connection and let me know when you are free. If we don't like each other we can call it quits after 30 minutes but at least then we know. Unless you really are a crazy axe murderer and are trying to back out because you know that I am onto you? Noname321 5 days later she replies with:- well thats cool you really sound interesting and i love that well i think we still need more time to chat here and see how it goes can you pls send me some of your photos and sure i will share mine also,,,,, ===== What do you think I should reply with. I was thinking sending this photo:- https://ibb.co/GWD0GpZ and saying something like "Hi checkout my new look I hope you like it " Before you guys comment on my reply make sure you checkout the photo first! Edit: Just in case you weren't sure that photo isn't really me and I look nothing like that in real life. Thanks a lot for your help and advise I am pleased to have found this forum with like minded people.
basil67 Posted July 18, 2019 Posted July 18, 2019 While it was cringeworthy, wour mistake wasn't in telling her that you have time for a cute little thing like her. Rather, this line >>Right now I want to focus on carefree fun and affection just laughing and fooling around, building connections with people and making the most of the time I have.<< told her that you want no strings sex and she won't be the only one you're seeing. She wants a guy who will be an actual boyfriend and you're clearly not in that phase of life. I have no idea why you'd want to send her that photo.
preraph Posted July 18, 2019 Posted July 18, 2019 Isn't Ashley Madison strictly for married people looking to have sex on the side? In which case, she shouldn't be saying she wants someone honest, right? 1
basil67 Posted July 18, 2019 Posted July 18, 2019 Oh, I missed that Preraph. Wonder if the mods will notice.
alphamale Posted July 18, 2019 Posted July 18, 2019 I can't read all that, please give me a summary 2
smackie9 Posted July 19, 2019 Posted July 19, 2019 (edited) They reported that 11% of the members are female on that site.....so they resort to planting fakes in there to keep their clientele until they figure it out that they won't be getting lucky. I think you will have better luck on craigslist. Edited July 19, 2019 by smackie9
spiderowl Posted July 19, 2019 Posted July 19, 2019 (edited) I think she is either a plant or a scammer. I don't get the feeling she has much character. Asking you to tell more about yourself is a wonderful way of keeping you busy and appearing interested but with minimal effort on their part. Male scammers do this and partly as a way to find out more about you so that they can play to what you are looking for. If she is real, however, you have told her you are looking for casual fun and that you are a risk-taker. This might not appeal to a woman seeking a long-term relationship. Edited July 19, 2019 by spiderowl 1
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