oldlion Posted July 20, 2019 Posted July 20, 2019 She'll be back again sometime in the future. She will have the same puppy dog look and try once again to tell you how sorry she is. When she does just look at her and say, "You are who? Do I know you from somewhere? You do remind me of this woman I once knew who screwed over me twice." Then close the door. I do wish you well. 1
oldtruck Posted July 21, 2019 Posted July 21, 2019 And to be clear...I am done! Should’ve held that line. I feel stupid for not. But I am done. I was just trying to make some sense of it all. I’m sure we all feel this way but when you spend that much time with someone you think you know them. It makes it hard to understand I guess. The only thing left is to go nc with her. 1
mark clemson Posted July 21, 2019 Posted July 21, 2019 But the reason why I'm posting is I am really stuck on why?! What can she be getting from this guy that is worth all of this pain and destruction, loss of a stable situation, confusion to kids, and hiding it for virtually 2 years, etc. Is he really that great? Why did she keep trying to come back to me? You weren't a fool. You gave her a more than fair chance to restart your relationship out of the decency of your heart and she failed. I really don't think anyone's so smart that they can't be deceived or blindsided. Affairs, unfortunately, tend to be somewhat addictive and she may simply have very strong feelings for him that she can't control. He's not so great - in a matter of time (months to years, but still finite) her feelings will fade. And she'll look at what she's made of her life and probably start asking herself those exact same questions. 2
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