This pretty woman replied to me again on Match.

[IwantDate]

So this attractive woman who's 4 years older than me I've been talking to the last couple days on match replied back again.

 

I replied with a long message last night and asked if we could exchange numbers and she read it but didn't reply. So tonight I sent her a message and asked if she wanted to meet up at the couple places she likes to hangout at since I'll be in the area on Thur and maybe go to lunch or coffee. She said she'd see what she's got going on and get back with me. Replied sounds good and if not I'm pretty much free on the weekend too and can get someone to cover my business.

 

So is this a good sign or will she just ghost me?

 

At the same time there is this hotter 22 year old girl chatting with me on OKC who's prettier and more chatty. Should I focus on her more?

[smackie9]

The one that says yes to a date. "let me check my schedule" is most likely a no.

[d0nnivain]

At this stage when you are simply chatting over OLD sites there is no need to focus on only one person.

 

With the first woman, sending a long message was a mistake. You need to leave some mystery. I think her non-responsive answers are a clear sign you are going nowhere with this one. If she gets back to great but have really low expectations.

 

Remember it's all meaningless until you meet.

[schlumpy]

I think she's going to ghost you. You offered a lot of effort to see her and she's offered nothing in return.

[IwantDate]

The one that says yes to a date. "let me check my schedule" is most likely a no.

 

True. Why not just save face and say it? Guys hate it when you women do that. Just be honest and blunt. I can focus on someone else then. Plus, she was chatty with me in messages. If she's not interested in dating she should be on meetup.com instead of paying for a dating site that isn't cheap.

 

As I said, the under 30 chicks are more sensible when I talk to them and I have better luck.

[IwantDate]

I think she's going to ghost you. You offered a lot of effort to see her and she's offered nothing in return.

 

True. It sounds like we were chatting back and forth but it didn't sound like she's really there for dating and just wants to meet people. Again meetup.com for that. Why are you on a dating site talking to guys if you're not that serious about dating. It's a dating site. Duh.

[IwantDate]

I think she's going to ghost you. You offered a lot of effort to see her and she's offered nothing in return.

 

I agree. She replied to me talkative about herself but then when I offer to text to make it easier she doesn't reply. I just hate my time being wasted if one is not serious.

 

The message I sent and got a reply tonight was me basically pulling the goalie with about a minute left in hopes of scoring and tying it up. She replied back so I tied the game to force OT. So now it can go either way.

 

again, a few years older than me. Women within a few years of me just don't seem very interested in me. 22-30 range I have better luck. I think it's their thought process. Also, these women later into their 30s many divorced and have baggage and seem to have issues.

[IwantDate]

Forgot to paste the reply she gave me.

 

I agree...messaging has its limits. Let me see what I have going on.

[kendahke]

She said she'd see what she's got going on and get back with me. So is this a good sign or will she just ghost me?

 

She's not interested. If she was, she'd have said yes. She hasn't got anything going on---she's just taking a pass on you.

 

At the same time there is this hotter 22 year old girl chatting with me on OKC who's prettier and more chatty. Should I focus on her more?

Yes.

 

Learn what is an energy sink and what isn't. The first chick is an energy sink.

[alphamale]

dude, when push comes to shove neither of these two woman are going to give you the time of day

[IwantDate]

dude, when push comes to shove neither of these two woman are going to give you the time of day

 

Why do you say that? First one probably so.

 

What about the younger one?

[alphamale]

Why do you say that? First one probably so.

 

What about the younger one?

 

post another thread after you've had sex with one of the two and I will then retract my statement above

[The Outlaw]

True. Why not just save face and say it? Guys hate it when you women do that. Just be honest and blunt. I can focus on someone else then. Plus, she was chatty with me in messages. If she's not interested in dating she should be on meetup.com instead of paying for a dating site that isn't cheap.

 

As I said, the under 30 chicks are more sensible when I talk to them and I have better luck.

 

Because it's easier to just give someone the brush off and walk without explanation. I'm not defending it by any means because I've been on the receiving end of it, but that's just the way the cookie crumbles. 'Let me check my schedule?' She said 'No' without ever saying it. Brush her off and move onto the next one.

[IwantDate]

Because it's easier to just give someone the brush off and walk without explanation. I'm not defending it by any means because I've been on the receiving end of it, but that's just the way the cookie crumbles. 'Let me check my schedule?' She said 'No' without ever saying it. Brush her off and move onto the next one.

 

I agree. But why would she even reply to my messages then? Like the first time she replied she read it, checked my profile out and then like 8 hours later replied. I sent a reply back asking more about herself and such and she replied back chatty.

 

if she wasn't really interested in dating in the first place why send replies leading you on and making it sound like she's interested talking to you?