This hot girl messaged me back on match.

July 15, 2019

Anyway, after having a cold streak for a week I finally got a reply back.

I sent a hot chick a message who lives 50 miles away from me. She is from my home town from up north so I'd figure we'd have something in common with sports teams and home.

Thing is she seems more educated that me, college professor so she obviously makes more cash.

She read my message this morning then late this afternoon decided to message me back regarding our hometown.

The thing is she's a few years older than me and the mate she's looking for listed in her profile is 38 the min.

What does that mean since I'm younger than what she's looking for yet she still replied?

July 15, 2019

Who cares? She responded, didn't she?

It's not like you're going to go out and get married tomorrow. Consider yourself damn lucky that she responded given your cold streak.

Chat it up with her and see how it goes.

Dating sites always have you putting in your preferences (age/distance/race etc.) in order to give you options but that doesn't necessarily mean they are hard limits for most people. The fact that she responded shows she's at least interested in getting to know you before making a decision so...don't blow it!

July 15, 2019

Who cares? She responded, didn't she?

It's not like you're going to go out and get married tomorrow. Consider yourself damn lucky that she responded given your cold streak.

Chat it up with her and see how it goes.

Dating sites always have you putting in your preferences (age/distance/race etc.) in order to give you options but that doesn't necessarily mean they are hard limits for most people. The fact that she responded shows she's at least interested in getting to know you before making a decision so...don't blow it!

I had another girl same distance but opposite direction favorite me even though I never viewed her profile. I sent her a message. She was online this morning but didnt read the message from yesterday so I resent it figuring it got lost in 100s of other messages and she read it this time. She viewed my profile two more times in 5 hours but hasn't replied yet. Why do these girls read a message then wait almost a day to reply back sometimes? This girl too is hot but only 5ft tall. Probably little more attainable. I hope I didn't blow it with that one looking too persistent.

July 15, 2019

What does that mean since I'm younger than what she's looking for yet she still replied?

It ("it" being everything you said above) means you might get the first date, if you're lucky, you might get a second one. When you try to get the third you will get the speech that goes like this: "You're such a nice guy, and I really like you, but we should just be friends".

Why? Because you are scrambling about trying to figure out where the situation is going to take you,...rather than where you are going to take the situation.

July 15, 2019

Are you originally from St Louis by any chance?

July 15, 2019

My impression is that she's just making conversation.

July 15, 2019

Are you originally from St Louis by any chance?

Me or the OP?

July 15, 2019

My impression is that she's just making conversation.

What's the point then? It's a dating site you're paying good money for unless it's a fake profile.

Why waste time chit chatting with non intentions for a date? I don't message people just to chit chat with no intention. I got better things to do.

July 15, 2019

Me or the OP?

The OP. I thought you guys just had some chat about St Louis.

July 15, 2019

My impression is that she's just making conversation.

I usually agree with many of your posts but I really don't think women on dating sites make conversation with just anyone.

If you're a half decent looking woman online, it's almost guaranteed she will have men of all ages and distances blowing up her inbox on any given day. No woman of that caliber has the time nor energy to entertain just any guy, even if they're from the same home town.

Hell, sometimes just being polite and sending a "Thanks but no thanks" message keeps many guys white knuckling it for dear life hoping if they're persistent enough she'll change her mind

That's not to say anything will come of it, but if she responded, she's at least a little interested in knowing more. It's up to him to keep her engaged long enough to secure a date.

July 15, 2019

I usually agree with many of your posts but I really don't think women on dating sites make conversation with just anyone.

If you're a half decent looking woman online, it's almost guaranteed she will have men of all ages and distances blowing up her inbox on any given day. No woman of that caliber has the time nor energy to entertain just any guy, even if they're from the same home town.

Hell, sometimes just being polite and sending a "Thanks but no thanks" message keeps many guys white knuckling it for dear life hoping if they're persistent enough she'll change her mind

That's not to say anything will come of it, but if she responded, she's at least a little interested in knowing more. It's up to him to keep her engaged long enough to secure a date.

How many replies back and forth before asking for her number and possibly setting something up?

July 15, 2019

I had another girl same distance but opposite direction favorite me even though I never viewed her profile. I sent her a message. She was online this morning but didnt read the message from yesterday so I resent it figuring it got lost in 100s of other messages and she read it this time. She viewed my profile two more times in 5 hours but hasn't replied yet. Why do these girls read a message then wait almost a day to reply back sometimes? This girl too is hot but only 5ft tall. Probably little more attainable. I hope I didn't blow it with that one looking too persistent.

Because she's probably inundated with messages and sifting through trying to figure out who to talk to or even IF she wants to talk to you.

Some "hot" women LOVE the attention more than the actual dating part.

If she's interested in actually dating, sometimes intentions are good in that they want to connect but there are one or two profiles who have hijacked her time and energy. You really can't plays as well when you're about quantity rather than quality so a lot of pretty great people get missed in the shuffle.

July 15, 2019

Because she's probably inundated with messages and sifting through trying to figure out who to talk to or even IF she wants to talk to you.

Some "hot" women LOVE the attention more than the actual dating part.

If she's interested in actually dating, sometimes intentions are good in that they want to connect but there are one or two profiles who have hijacked her time and energy. You really can't plays as well when you're about quantity rather than quality so a lot of pretty great people get missed in the shuffle.

Well that one girl read my reply 20 mins ago but hasn't replied back again yet. She mentioned why she moved here for teaching so I asked her what level she teaches and trying to get her to warm up to me. Maybe she will wait 8 hrs to reply again. I hope she didnt find someone that quick and dropped me already

July 15, 2019

How many replies back and forth before asking for her number and possibly setting something up?

Every woman is different. Personally, if I'm vibing well with someone via online, I would expect to exchange phone numbers and move onto texting or calling for a bit more before setting something up usually within a day or two of that. But that's ME.

I'm 50 and my time is precious so I don't want to sit around chatting for weeks on end before he asks me out on a date, especially when there is good banter.

I'm often talking to several other men at the same time so the first one to step up to the plate gets the date. Competition is fierce online so it's best to stay strong and consistent and secure a date sooner rather than later. Again, if she's a good looking woman, she'll have a lot of prospects all jockeying for her attention and time.

If she wavers in the least or makes some excuse about not sure when to meet etc., drop her like a bad habit. She's likely one of those women who is in it for the attention more than the dating and no one has time for those people.

Good luck.

July 15, 2019

Well that one girl read my reply 20 mins ago but hasn't replied back again yet. She mentioned why she moved here for teaching so I asked her what level she teaches and trying to get her to warm up to me. Maybe she will wait 8 hrs to reply again. I hope she didnt find someone that quick and dropped me already

If she takes that long to respond, nothing much you can do about it unfortunately.

What NOT to do? Don't keep messaging her over and over again hoping to get her attention.

Online can feel like a game and even a lottery sometimes. Sometimes you win and many times you lose. Just how it is. Patience is a virtue as is navigating with low expectations.

July 15, 2019

Every woman is different. Personally, if I'm vibing well with someone via online, I would expect to exchange phone numbers and move onto texting or calling for a bit more before setting something up usually within a day or two of that. But that's ME.

I'm 50 and my time is precious so I don't want to sit around chatting for weeks on end before he asks me out on a date, especially when there is good banter.

I'm often talking to several other men at the same time so the first one to step up to the plate gets the date. Competition is fierce online so it's best to stay strong and consistent and secure a date sooner rather than later. Again, if she's a good looking woman, she'll have a lot of prospects all jockeying for her attention and time.

If she wavers in the least or makes some excuse about not sure when to meet etc., drop her like a bad habit. She's likely one of those women who is in it for the attention more than the dating and no one has time for those people.

Good luck.

Yea. This one said she has lots of friends she hangs out with to watch sporting events. This tells me she might like friend zoning people possibly

So if she replies again should I ask for her number so we can text?

Btw how do you have problems meeting people? You look beautiful! At my age I'd date you even:)

Also age factor too. It seems women in their 30s get more attention on those sites. It seems easier for me to get replies from the 30 and under group.

I send lots of messages. I'd say looks wise most of the replies I get back are from girls who look like 7s and occasionally an 8. Rarely I ever message anyone higher than 7 or an 8. Because that good looking either it looks like a fake profile or their expectations are way overboard. Since 7 girls is who replies a lot should I step up to the highest ones or would that be a waste and stick to the 7 range who replies a lot more?

July 15, 2019

If she takes that long to respond, nothing much you can do about it unfortunately.

What NOT to do? Don't keep messaging her over and over again hoping to get her attention.

Online can feel like a game and even a lottery sometimes. Sometimes you win and many times you lose. Just how it is. Patience is a virtue as is navigating with low expectations.

I was having more luck a month ago but ghosted them for various reasons. When I first joined match in april I was talking to a really cute girl back and forth. Nice face and all. She finally suggested somewhere to meet up near her house but it was over 30 miles away and I didnt feel like setting up a date that for away. She was also only 5ft tall. Just a tad shorter than what I like despite being in shape and pretty

She initiated the idea to meet for dinner. Should I have taken her offer and not ghost her over an inch height? She sounded really into me too. Ifbshes asking to meetup does that mean they're really interested? If I would have went on that date I might not be on here right now lol

July 15, 2019

Yea. This one said she has lots of friends she hangs out with to watch sporting events. This tells me she might like friend zoning people possibly

So if she replies again should I ask for her number so we can text?

Btw how do you have problems meeting people? You look beautiful! At my age I'd date you even:)

Also age factor too. It seems women in their 30s get more attention on those sites. It seems easier for me to get replies from the 30 and under group.

I send lots of messages. I'd say looks wise most of the replies I get back are from girls who look like 7s and occasionally an 8. Rarely I ever message anyone higher than 7 or an 8. Because that good looking either it looks like a fake profile or their expectations are way overboard. Since 7 girls is who replies a lot should I step up to the highest ones or would that be a waste and stick to the 7 range who replies a lot more?

Who said anything about having problems meeting people?

I'm just giving you one woman's perspective - can't speak for why all women do what they do but maybe it could shed some light and help you.

July 15, 2019

Here is the reply she just sent. How should I reply to this? Should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Does it sound too early? Help a bro out here before I reply back.

teach AP English Lit at a college prep school and I am the head cross country and track coach. During the school year, I keep busy. During the summer I travel and read and workout. I was in danger of becoming a recluse since I am by myself a lot, so I am trying to “be more social.” As for tv, I go to bars and drink water and tip the bar tender when there is a game I want to see.

July 15, 2019

I was having more luck a month ago but ghosted them for various reasons. When I first joined match in april I was talking to a really cute girl back and forth. Nice face and all. She finally suggested somewhere to meet up near her house but it was over 30 miles away and I didnt feel like setting up a date that for away. She was also only 5ft tall. Just a tad shorter than what I like despite being in shape and pretty

She initiated the idea to meet for dinner. Should I have taken her offer and not ghost her over an inch height? She sounded really into me too. Ifbshes asking to meetup does that mean they're really interested? If I would have went on that date I might not be on here right now lol

Honestly, I think that ghosting her was straight up rude at the best of times never mind over a couple of inches in her height. Seriously??

Now you're sounding super shallow and perhaps Karma is who you'll be dating as a result. Geeeeez.

I get it - we all have our preferences BUT unless you're ridiculously good looking (in which case, you likely wouldn't need to be online), you can't date inside a tiny box forever before you realize just how small your box really is.

If she had it all going on except for 2-3 inches, initiated the date AND was into you, then you're a damn fool hun.

Not cool at all.

July 15, 2019

Here is the reply she just sent. How should I reply to this? Should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Does it sound too early? Help a bro out here before I reply back.

teach AP English Lit at a college prep school and I am the head cross country and track coach. During the school year, I keep busy. During the summer I travel and read and workout. I was in danger of becoming a recluse since I am by myself a lot, so I am trying to “be more social.” As for tv, I go to bars and drink water and tip the bar tender when there is a game I want to see.

I gotta go to work soon. Any advice before I go in? I don't want her to lose interest for not replying.

July 15, 2019

Here is the reply she just sent. How should I reply to this? Should I offer her my number or ask for hers? Does it sound too early? Help a bro out here before I reply back.

teach AP English Lit at a college prep school and I am the head cross country and track coach. During the school year, I keep busy. During the summer I travel and read and workout. I was in danger of becoming a recluse since I am by myself a lot, so I am trying to “be more social.” As for tv, I go to bars and drink water and tip the bar tender when there is a game I want to see.

She's treading carefully by letting you know she keeps herself busy and enjoys her alone time. She may not be looking for a romantic connection but rather just a friendly social interaction. Just be prepared for that.

Ask her what games she enjoys watching. If there is one on this week, I might offer to meet at the local bar for a drink and watch the game together. If she seems open to that idea, I would suggest exchanging phone numbers to make connecting easier.

I wouldn't put any pressure on her and just try to keep the conversation light and around the things that she enjoys if only to build some trust with her and get her to come out of hiding. The more comfortable she feels with you the more likely she'll accept a date even if it only turns out to be friendship.

July 15, 2019

She's treading carefully by letting you know she keeps herself busy and enjoys her alone time. She may not be looking for a romantic connection but rather just a friendly social interaction. Just be prepared for that.

Ask her what games she enjoys watching. If there is one on this week, I might offer to meet at the local bar for a drink and watch the game together. If she seems open to that idea, I would suggest exchanging phone numbers to make connecting easier.

I wouldn't put any pressure on her and just try to keep the conversation light and around the things that she enjoys if only to build some trust with her and get her to come out of hiding. The more comfortable she feels with you the more likely she'll accept a date even if it only turns out to be friendship.

Well only ball games right now. She likes hockey but season is over. I have ideas for a reply. Since she waits awhile when she replies should I wait until I get home from work tonight. To send a thoughtful non have arse reply that might put her off?

July 15, 2019

Well only ball games right now. She likes hockey but season is over. I have ideas for a reply. Since she waits awhile when she replies should I wait until I get home from work tonight. To send a thoughtful non have arse reply that might put her off?

Yes. She's not in any hurry to respond to you so no need for you to be either.

July 15, 2019

Yes. She's not in any hurry to respond to you so no need for you to be either.

I might type a draft in word now and add to it tonight and send it sounds like she wants to simply meet people but hey shes a hot female.

She also coaches varsity girls cross country.!! Giggity lol jk.

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