Glovesoff Posted July 14, 2019 Posted July 14, 2019 Life had been pretty **** for me previously. Broke up with my wife of near on 7 years (3 kids). One day a few weeks ago I was having a downer day. I had been on dating sites not really meeting anyone that peaked my interest or seemed real. I was down the street and i was heading back to my car when I noticed this woman having issues with her daughter who was playing a game of lock the car when mum unlocks it. In passing I said I know the fun because mine do it too. She turned and said yeah it's fun. She will get bored of it soon. We gave each other a smile and went our separate ways. Her smile picked up my spirits that little bit. later that evening I went back on to the dating websites and was checking out profiles. I came across one that kind of peaked my interest. I sent her a message. Not really expecting one back. The next day I went back onto the site to find that I had a reply. It was a funny and witty reply. We chatted like that for a few days. She told me that she was deactivating her account because of all the pervs out there but she liked chatting with me and would still like to chat. So I gave her my Snapcht and messenger names. Low and behold she actually continued to talk to me. I asked her out on a date. She said yes. I was amazed that she said that she would like to. It wasn't a posh date or anything like that just some drinks down at the local pub. The date night came around pretty fast. I was excited and nervous at the same time. It picked me up when she said that she was nervous first. We planned part of the night. That I would pick her up and that I would drive us to the pub where I would leave my car and I would get a taxi to take her home. It was a fun night of drinking and chatting. Go out side for the occasional cigarette. We danced a bit talked about our kids (which she has 3 too). She turned to me and said you know we have met before.... I said really trying to place exactly where I had met her. She said that she didn't remember my face but she remembered my car. She was the same lady that I had a yarn about kids locking the doors when you unlock them. I turned to her and said bull****. No ****ing way. What are the chances. This woman is totally amazing. I can be myself. ( Well my old happy self). We chat everyday. Talking about random stuff and kids. What are the chances of a friendly smile and banter in passing could lead to meeting someone as vibrant as her. 2
smackie9 Posted July 14, 2019 Posted July 14, 2019 I like these stories too...it happened to me as well. I only knew of my husband because he dated my buddy's sis and he once showed up briefly at my buddies house about a year later but I didn't pay much attention. One night he showed up at the club I worked at. I didn't recognize him so I went up to my friend and asked "who's that cute guy?" lol...my hubby asked me out that night, the rest is history. One thing I noticed is, the harder you look the harder it is to find someone....love does seem to find you. Best of luck and hope all goes well for you. Very happy for you.
preraph Posted July 14, 2019 Posted July 14, 2019 So nice to hear a story of worlds colliding! Best wishes. Hope things work out for you.
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