jwlindacrwn Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 hey! am havin a bit of a prob relaxing in front of my bf when it cumz 2 sexual stuff. he's my 1st bf n we've been goin out for 2 months. am totally inexperienced n am very self-conscious, so i kinda freak out when he tries 2 take off my clothes....bt he wantz me 2 get use 2 it which am tryin really hard 2 do....bt sometimes i end up messing his day. he feelz really let down when i wont let him touch me there. ive gone down on him....but i wont let him do da same 4 me. i feel so messed up. pls help me
fusangite Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 Judging by the style in which your message is written, you may legitimately feel that you are too young to do what he wants you to do sexually. And that's fair. You should not feel ashamed to want to explore your sexuality at your own pace. How old are you? Is he much older than you?
Tankgirl Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 NEVER do anything youre uncomfortable with. Love is patient and kind. Dont let anyone guilt or pressure you, the experience will not be a good one and you WILL regret it later. When YOU are ready you will know you are and you will have a fantastic time! If so-and-so cant deal then get a NEW one, it will be twice as fun!!!!! ~shake it like you got it baby, but ONLY give it away when you WANT to
Author jwlindacrwn Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 well am 17 goin on 18 this december n my bf is 22yrs. i wanna give him wot he wantz bt am nt ready 4 it yet n i knw it. he tellz me that i gotta do those stuff 2 get use 2 it..bt startin up is my prob. i dnt wanna make him unhappy coz i dnt wanna loose him. sumtymz i juz dnt knw wot 2 do n i cry a lot when am with him. he cares a lot abt me n itz da same with me....i wanna keep him happy bt sumtymz i feel i dnt wanna take thinz slow n keep him waitin....bt that's wot am doin ryt now
fusangite Posted September 27, 2005 Posted September 27, 2005 well am 17 goin on 18 this december n my bf is 22yrs. i wanna give him wot he wantz bt am nt ready 4 it yet n i knw it. he tellz me that i gotta do those stuff 2 get use 2 it..bt startin up is my prob. i dnt wanna make him unhappy coz i dnt wanna loose him. sumtymz i juz dnt knw wot 2 do n i cry a lot when am with him. he cares a lot abt me n itz da same with me....i wanna keep him happy bt sumtymz i feel i dnt wanna take thinz slow n keep him waitin....bt that's wot am doin ryt now From the way you were writing, I figured you were 13. You might want to try using English on this ofrum. You cry a lot when yuo are with him? How often and why?
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