This hot chick in my sub division. How to talk

[bluesfan]

I never got around to posting this but in my sub division a couple streets over there is this hot chick who lives there. She looks about 18-23 years old. I just happen to see her when I'm running or when I'm up at the club house getting mail I'll run into her once in a blue moon when getting mail or I see her when she's riding her bike.

 

 

Anyway, I say high sometimes to her and she says hi back but she seems EXTREMELY shy. She gives off a nice, shy smile and says hi back softly. Again seems really shy, more so than a typical person that age. Something you'd expect from a 9 year old.

 

 

I don't know if she goes to college or whatever or even works. I say that because I see her out at all random times of the day, 7 days a week day or night. She's a solid 8 like that Morgan Brian I posted. Nice shape like her just a little heavier but she's not a pro soccer player.

 

 

I almost wonder if maybe she has a mild form AS or just shyness.

 

 

Any way to talk to her if I get the chance without creeping her out if I see her by the mail boxes?

 

 

I did see on her parents van it said "congrats Bella" and this was back in May so I wonder if she graduated high school or college. As I said, just see her out and about at ALL hours of the day. IMO she looks more in the 18-20 range.

[Blanco]

If I recall, you're in your mid-30s, so it could be as simple as this young lady being a bit standoffish about that.

[bluesfan]

If I recall, you're in your mid-30s, so it could be as simple as this young lady being a bit standoffish about that.

 

 

True. The thing is I'm not perving out and checking her out like that so why would one need to be shy and standoffish about that if I'm not acting like a creep?

 

 

I mean when people way older than me say hi I don't get standoffish.

[alphamale]

dude, be careful you don't want to be the next Jeffrey Epstein

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

You are too old for her. Leave her alone.

[preraph]

Oh, because young women, especially still in their teens, are well aware of how little encouragement it takes to an older guy to start leching on them, and they don't want to have to deal with it and really don't usually have the skills that young. She still lives with her parents. I mean, it's fairly universal that old guys will try to hit on young girls if they get any encouragement at all. This is knowledge all women by the time they're teens are aware of and most try to avoid.

 

She's trying to be polite but not friendly enough to encourage you, IMO.

[bluesfan]

You are too old for her. Leave her alone.

 

 

Well look at Trump. He always has liked younger women. Melania's age gap is greater than this right her. Listen to how he's talked in the past too.

 

 

It's normal for us guys to be attracted to younger women.

 

 

I mean, usually guys go for women younger than them, not the other way around.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

How did President Trump get dragged into this? Melania is a fully grown woman. This girl does not seem to be. You are too old, sorry.

[preraph]

Well look at Trump. He always has liked younger women. Melania's age gap is greater than this right her. Listen to how he's talked in the past too.

 

 

It's normal for us guys to be attracted to younger women.

 

 

I mean, usually guys go for women younger than them, not the other way around.

 

What rich guys and celebrities can attract has nothing to do with what ordinary people can attract.

 

It's not at all normal for girls to be attracted to men over 30. They seem like geezers to 99 percent of them.

[Ruby Slippers]

A guy over 30 pursuing a girl under 20, a teenager, is creepy no matter how you look at it. Imagine if you had a teenage daughter how you'd feel about a 30-something guy pursuing her. I'm sure you'd feel very protective, and rightfully so.

 

It's true that men generally pursue women younger than them. But not teenagers when they're more than a decade older. If her dad doesn't block you, her brothers, uncles, or cousins will.

[alphamale]

How did President Trump get dragged into this? Melania is a fully grown woman. This girl does not seem to be. You are too old, sorry.

 

Melania is a garden-variety gold digger

[preraph]

I don't completely understand why it is, but it seems like models usually are gold diggers. I never understood why a successful model would need to be a gold digger, though. But especially the aging ones always grab onto money. Look at Jerry Hall and that old crooked fossil Rupert Murdoch. How do you go from Mick Jagger to that?

 

Now, in fairness, other than his crazy hair, it's not like Donald was ever terrible looking. Not like say BillyJoel (ChristyBrinkley).

[bluesfan]

I don't completely understand why it is, but it seems like models usually are gold diggers. I never understood why a successful model would need to be a gold digger, though. But especially the aging ones always grab onto money. Look at Jerry Hall and that old crooked fossil Rupert Murdoch. How do you go from Mick Jagger to that?

 

Now, in fairness, other than his crazy hair, it's not like Donald was ever terrible looking. Not like say BillyJoel (ChristyBrinkley).

 

 

There is no doubt she probably is one. When she first met the President she wasn't make all her own money like she is now. Melania makes her own money now, but seriously you know she gets an allowance and a credit card from Trump to use. If Trump wasn't rich she'd dump the guy for cheating or probably wouldn't even be with him.

 

 

Trump isn't an ugly guy, just average but he was never in very good shape. I mean, Trump himself even admitted he never really worked out much. He himself was no hunk.

 

 

Look at Brad Marchand of the Bruins. He has a rat nose, looks like a rat and people say how ugly he is. Yet he has a really hot wife who's taller than him. Being famous and $$ got him that despite acting like a douche otherwise as he's known for.

 

 

Regarding age, I don't think this chick is a teen. I gave that general age range but she looks more like 20ish.

 

 

Also if you have read my previous post on this website I have a problem attracting women close to my age. I mean like 32-37 range.

 

 

The ones I interact with and online dating when I get replies most of teh women are 24 to 31. I did recently talk to a 37 year old on the OLD for 3 days but then she suddenly cut me off. Otherwise I have better luck under 30 years of age.

 

 

Why is it younger women talk to me more than ones close to my age?

[preraph]

The girl is still living at home and just apparently graduated, so that's about 18! Don't waste your time chasing girls. It's not going to be a successful venture. And if you're in the habit of just mostly noticing girls, better change that habit to noticing ones a little older or you'll miss an opportunity!

[basil67]

The most logical reason that this teenager isn't talking easily with you is because she doesn't want to. To her, you're just some random old geezer.

 

No need to chalk it up to shyness....and suggesting AS is just ridiculous.

[preraph]

One thing LS has shown me is when people start thinking a person they are crushing on is shy, it usually just means they hope that's why they're getting nowhere with them. If you're the recipient of an awkward smile, it's more likely not because that person is awkward but the situation is awkward for them because they are straining not to be impolite and neither to encourage you.

[bluesfan]

The most logical reason that this teenager isn't talking easily with you is because she doesn't want to. To her, you're just some random old geezer.

 

No need to chalk it up to shyness....and suggesting AS is just ridiculous.

 

 

Well, I don't act super shy like that if a 60 year old woman acknowledges me and I'll still hold a conversation with them. Of course I wouldn't ever date one but why would I be creeped out?

[JuneL]

Well, I don't act super shy like that if a 60 year old woman acknowledges me and I'll still hold a conversation with them. Of course I wouldn't ever date one but why would I be creeped out?

 

Are you sure you’re not the one with AS? You can’t seem to listen to what everyone is telling you.

[preraph]

Well, I don't act super shy like that if a 60 year old woman acknowledges me and I'll still hold a conversation with them. Of course I wouldn't ever date one but why would I be creeped out?

 

Women, especially old ones, aren't typically lechers and are mature enough not to put you in that situation, with rare exceptions.

 

They're creeped out because men can get to be a problem and also make you wonder if you can trust them at all. If they're not interested in you, they don't want you hanging around and they know from experience how hard it can be to get rid of unwanted attention. Young women have vastly different problems than most men have. Plus they don't want you hanging around acting like they're having something to do with you and running off guys they are interested in.

[preraph]

Are you sure you’re not the one with AS? You can’t seem to listen to what everyone is telling you.

 

Again, that's not acting shy. It's acting uncomfortable but trying to be polite. I'm 66 and looking back on my life, I can't think of one shy woman in real life. Men seem to want to believe they're shy because that makes them seem weaker and more vulnerable, I think. On the other hand, every woman I know has had to be evasive and tiptoe around some guy who's interested without getting them to where they really have to worry about them.

[The Outlaw]

It's ok to want to get to know someone, but just leave this one alone. You don't know anything about her at all, and she's young. It's best to find someone your own age.

[bluesfan]

It's ok to want to get to know someone, but just leave this one alone. You don't know anything about her at all, and she's young. It's best to find someone your own age.

 

 

Then how am I supposed to find out more about them and "get to know" them if i don't talk to people? Jeez.

 

 

As I mentioned. Women in my age range don't show much interest or have much in common. It seems under 30 gives me more attention.

 

 

Why would I want ones around my age if they're not interested? Why waste my time on those if I'm not what a 31-35 year old is looking for?

[preraph]

They difference in a woman who is 26 and a girl who is 18 is vast. You don't seem to pay attention to anything but how they look. An 18 year old girl doesn't have the maturity a 35 year old guy should have. But mainly, they think you're a geezer, and you kind of are if you keep going after teenagers.

[Blanco]

"But Trump does it" is probably not the argument to use. What Teflon Don can get away with does not apply to the general population.

[bluesfan]

They difference in a woman who is 26 and a girl who is 18 is vast. You don't seem to pay attention to anything but how they look. An 18 year old girl doesn't have the maturity a 35 year old guy should have. But mainly, they think you're a geezer, and you kind of are if you keep going after teenagers.

 

 

What about if she's actually 21?