jwlindacrwn Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 ive been going out with my bf for 2 monthz now...n we're really close 2 each other. but i dnt like his friendz,there big time into clubbing n drinkin n all that. my bf has gastritis n da doc advised him not 2 drink. but his so-called friendz dnt seem 2 care about that, their not talkin 2 him now...sayin that he doesnt hang out with them like use 2. he was really upset coz they dnt seem 2understand his situation though there are best friends. it hurtz me a lot coz he's worrying like hell n i cant seem 2 help him with his prob. n sumtymz i feel his friendz r takin him 4 granted....but still he doesnt care about it coz there his friends. pls i need sum advise 2 get my bf outta this mess
JadeStar Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 Well the way I see it is, if they were his friends they would try and understand his situation with what the doc has said. They obviously do not care, which says to me they aren't really his friends and they are being selfish. Hopefully he will continue to do what the doc has said, and he wont let them be a negative influence on him. As for you, just try to be there for him, comfort him in his time of need. Jade
Author jwlindacrwn Posted September 27, 2005 Author Posted September 27, 2005 thanx jade! i also feel that his friendz dnt lyk me, coz he cumz 2 my place everyday n spendz tym with me. n when they ask him 2 cum clubbin with them...he say's no. he had told them that he doesn wanna drink n ruin his life...n instead he wantz 2 spend mo tym with me....bt they dnt seem 2 lyk that. bt i dnt think itz a gud idea tellin him 2 let go his palz...coz he will feel left out all of a sudden. it has happend 2 me so many tymz n that's one feelin i dnt want him 2 go thru.
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