Nosoul Posted July 12, 2019 Posted July 12, 2019 (edited) My long term gf of 8 years left me for the second time. The first time was for another man. When that didn't work she came back and I gave her another chance. I guess I just always saw past people's choices and mistakes and saw the good in people. So we started a family and had a little girl. But after baby came my ex started getting angry again. Everything set her off. It was like walking on egg shells all the time. A soon as she came into the house she would start yelling. She fits the narcissist description perfectly. But I'm pretty sure she was bipolar. Threw the months her excuses for the second breakup have been changing. First she said she was reading self help books that made her realize I'm not the type of guy she wants. Then she said that she held me at night and felt nothing. Now she says that I always made fun of how she looks and that my family doesn't like her and that I never had her back. Which isn't true. During the end she was taking off with her friend. They partied and her friend was newly single and broken. And it seemed the more they hung out the more she resented me. I also found out she was hanging out with another guy again. I feel like she was planning on leaving me for him.but it never happened because the fact that I found out. I still hang out with her siblings now and then (they call me all the time) my ex hates her siblings for no reason so she cut them out of her life too. She even said that me hanging out with them is betraying her. But the real reason is because they know dirt on her that she doesn't want me to know. This whole breakup makes no sense but at the same time it makes perfect sense. No sense as in we were growing fast to a great life. Perfect sense as in she is emotionally and mentally unstable and cannot think for herself so she let's other narcissists opinions decide her fate . But bottom line . What ever the reason for the breakup. It doesn't matter if it's A ,B or C. She still brokeup with me. She hoovers me and constantly asks for money. I know I dodged a bullet but my heart misses her when it was the good times. A lot of women are interested in me but its been 8 months and I have no interest because it feels like I would be cheating on her. I was and am so loyal. And I get texts from her here and now to keep.my interest level up and to keep me perusing her. I feel like if I start dating another woman. Shell come back. But I don't want to date a woman to get my ex back or to heal my broken heart. I want to date someone for love. And it's hard to love someone else even though the woman I love is a piece of sh*t and treats me like one too. I dono how to get over her. Edited July 12, 2019 by Nosoul
Flame Aura Posted July 12, 2019 Posted July 12, 2019 I dono how to get over her. The same as every other breakup everyone else goes through; time. It's the only thing that helps. Stay no contact with her. Do not reply to her messages. Remove anything that reminds you of her. Keep busy and focus on yourself. Hit the gym. Go out with friends. Travel. Might not feel like it right now, but after time, you will start to get over her. You will then meet someone that appreciates you for you.
Author Nosoul Posted July 12, 2019 Author Posted July 12, 2019 Yea . It just sucks. Why come back just to leave again.like I dI'd everything for her and non of it was ever good enough
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