Do women like being sugar mamas?

[dateme]

I have a lady who want to pay for dinner, and everything. It seems as though she wants to call the shots. She is talking about paying my car note. Is this typical?

[Michelle ma Belle]

Is it typical? Nothing is typical these days.

 

Not all older women want to be sugar mamas just like not all older men want to be sugar daddies. It just depends on each person and what they're searching for.

 

Are you dating this woman? How did you meet her? Have you slept with her or have any intentions to sleep with her? How old are you both?

 

Need a bit more info to give you a better perceptive.

[elaine567]

I have a lady who want to pay for dinner, and everything. It seems as though she wants to call the shots. She is talking about paying my car note. Is this typical?

 

Not sure if she wants to be a sugar mama or not, but if she is rich and you appear poor, then some women will take pity on such a man as they want to "save" him.

[MINAKO]

I often offer to pay, but it has nothing to do with wanting to be a sugar mamma because that is the last thing I would want. I just feel nervous or embarrassed sometimes when someone takes care of me financially, like dinner dates and what not, so I often feel like I should chip in or cover it the next time - things like that. I still very much like for the guy to offer to pay, even if I plan on paying for myself. Just comes down to polite gestures for me, and not actually being, or being with, a sugar figure.

[d0nnivain]

I have a lady who want to pay for dinner, and everything. It seems as though she wants to call the shots. She is talking about paying my car note. Is this typical?

 

Only she knows what is typical for her.

 

It's a brave new world. Women have as much financial clout as some men.

 

I'd find out how much her gifts are going to cost you before you accept.

[smackie9]

If I was single and stinking rich? you better believe it. They don't call us cougars for nothing! lol

[thefooloftheyear]

Women will do this if they feel they are a downgrade in quality when compared to the man or they feel the guy could do better than them in terms of attractiveness...They are, in essence, hoping their gestures cloud your ability to see her physical flaws...Most put together women don't do this as they never have to...

 

Guys have been doing the same thing for eons....this is nothing new...

 

TFY

[smackie9]

I look at it as a power thing.