AllisonC Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me last night, something I was completely not expecting. He enjoys spending time with me, I fulfill him mentally and physically- however, he doesn't know if he loves me. He thinks he should know by now whether he loves me. I never gave him any deadlines- I realize some things take time. It was enough just to be with him. I'm so hurt and devastated. I thought he was different than the other guys I dated, and he's really cut from the same mold. I don't know how I can ever trust a relationship anymore- are they going to break up with me for no reason? I'm a good person, but my heart is broken and I don't know what to do.
Gold Pile Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 I'm sorry you're in pain. Ever been there b4? it will pass...trust me. When your head clears, maybe you'll find the end was predictable by signs. Maybe not. I've never preyed on the broken hearted, their pain just brings out the mother terasa in me.
Its Not A Tumaaa Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 It just sounds like he is afraid of getting his heart broken again. I'm going through the exact same situation, and was contemplating breaking my relationship off before I got even more attached... But I'm not going to. He just has some insecurity issues he needs to work out. Keep in contact with him, make sure he knows you love him, he'll eventually come around.
hoppy28 Posted September 26, 2005 Posted September 26, 2005 i disagree.................he knows how you feel. theres no need to call him and tell him how you feel. if he's unsure then walk away. as hard as it will be it will be for the best. he may realise he made a mistake,,,,,he may not. it doesnt really matter. nobody is willing to walk away from something they really want or love.
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