Elizzabeth Posted July 6, 2019 Posted July 6, 2019 Just months ago I started talking to a man which is almost 10 years older. He was very attracted to me. Chatting all day (even if I was ignoring most of his messages) always wanted to go out with me and etc. I was not really interested in him because he seemed just a successful rich ****boy. Neither I was not considering dating him because I thought he was definitely not my type. Just went out several times and found him very funny and interesting person. Now, when I am interested in him, he seems very distant. Usually messages to me when I disappear from messenger for couple hours. In the beginning he seemed that he was very interested in serious relationship. Complained to me that he wanted to have wife and kids as his friends because he is in age to have. We both are in a path of life where we have gained almost everything in career and now seek something more. BUT. After we had sex and found each other very compatible in it, He is not expressing any warm feelings to me. After first time (when we were drunk (shame)) I admitted that I didnt want to have just a sexual partner, friend with benefits etc. But i feel that he is no longer considering me as a future girlfriend. We have planned to spend our holidays together in Europe and it comes in couple days. But I am very unsure about what to do. I dont want to be just a partner to him but neither I dont want to waste my holidays (I've been waiting this 1 week off from work for already months) I am very inexperienced in relationships. Please give me some recommendations about this man. Should I go in a holidays with him? Should I just break or try something different? Thank you!
Foxhall Posted July 6, 2019 Posted July 6, 2019 It would appear he is merely interested in a liaison of a sexual nature, he would be delighted to get to go away with a beautiful younger woman for a week and have a fun time (based primarily around sex) I think you deserve to be romanced and treated in a more loving caring way by a chap who is interested in a long term relationship, this guy should be making you feel excited and looking forward to the holiday, he evidently is not, forget the holiday and look for a better option.
smackie9 Posted July 6, 2019 Posted July 6, 2019 I don’t see you as inexperienced. You know enough that you are right he is only in it to hit it. This was his intention all along. You didn’t do anything to ruin your chances for a relationship. Do the right thing and dump this chump. I agree you should find a better option.
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