Sm12345 Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Long story short, we texted back and forth and then I went off. I restored my profile recently and just noticed her message.. “Also I'll give you my number - x. Getting a new phone on Saturday and best if we text in case I don't have my apps installed” Is it weird to message her back?
MaleIntuition Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Yes it’s weird, and it’s unlikely that she will respond: But do it anyway. 1
Author Sm12345 Posted July 5, 2019 Author Posted July 5, 2019 What would I even say? Should I text her or message on the site?
chillii Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Just do it , just say you've been off it for awhile, whatever.
smackie9 Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Female perspective: Ya it would be because it was 7 months ago. Whatever excuse you give her, she's not going to believe you. I don't see a point to do so....you never bothered to ask her out anyways. That window of opportunity is long gone. Best of luck.
surferchic Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 It wouldn’t be so weird to message her with a sincere short & sweet statement. And I’m not sure why this is even a thread, no disrespect meant but unless you were planning to date her heavily then what’s the point. The weird part of course, is that it was 7 months ago. As a woman I’d appreciate your gesture of an explanation. Still, if I’m dating someone else or maybe even not... your message isn’t going to make me start dating YOU or be like “awwww, yay... he’s back!” ......... Na.
gradh Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 As a woman I’d appreciate your gesture of an explanation. Still, if I’m dating someone else or maybe even not... your message isn’t going to make me start dating YOU or be like “awwww, yay... he’s back!” ......... Na. Agreed. But, it might make her feel better to know you didn't see the message and had dropped off of the dating sight for whatever reason. I wouldn't ask her out, just apologize for not answering and leave it at that. She'll know you didn't purposefully blow her off. But most likely, she's way over it already. 1
Versacehottie Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Getting in touch after such a long time is a bold move---so go bold all the way and text her rather than pussyfoot around with the dating app messaging. She wanted you to have her number before so assume the "best". And then come up with a good lead in line as to why you have been MIA....and start with that. Good luck
kendahke Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 if someone texted me out of the blue 7 months after they "went off"--no matter what that means--I'd delete the message and keep going with my life. 1
The Outlaw Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 You can try, but she's likely moved on by now. It's been eight months since she got a response from you.
crispytoast Posted July 9, 2019 Posted July 9, 2019 Yes it's weird so send her a picture of your dong to break the ice.
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