divegrl Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 You are giving her way too much power over your life. Stop focusing on what she is doing, and put your energy and attention into things you enjoy. Plan your own vacation, adventure and experience! She said she would be going away sometime this week, so let her be. Have a beautiful day my friend!!!!
Author Fensun90 Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 You are giving her way too much power over your life. Stop focusing on what she is doing, and put your energy and attention into things you enjoy. Plan your own vacation, adventure and experience! She said she would be going away sometime this week, so let her be. Have a beautiful day my friend!!!! Yeah.. I am doing my own things. Still doing my hobbies etc. Still I dont want her to think I dont care about her..
TheFinalWord Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 Don't ever double text. Especially at the beginning stages. My guess is she knows you care. If anything, she thinks you care too much for barely knowing her. She's putting on the brakes and if you keep pushing anyway, you're going to scare her totally off. My guess is things are moving fast and you're starting to feel like a boyfriend, and she's starting to feel like she's losing her freedom. I would text A LOT less and save it for going on dates.
Author Fensun90 Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 Don't ever double text. Especially at the beginning stages. My guess is she knows you care. If anything, she thinks you care too much for barely knowing her. She's putting on the brakes and if you keep pushing anyway, you're going to scare her totally off. My guess is things are moving fast and you're starting to feel like a boyfriend, and she's starting to feel like she's losing her freedom. I would text A LOT less and save it for going on dates. Yeah.. I will just focus on myself and not text and just wait. I dont want to crowd anyone or making them feel uncomfortable. I can post here if I eventually hear from her
d0nnivain Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 She is either really busy or most likely not interested. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 This is simple - she is loosing interest or has moved on / found someone else who is holding her attention. Anyone who is interested will make every effort to remain in contact and/or lock down another date. Best to just forget her and move on. She knows you're interested if she changes her mind. Good luck. 2
emeraldgreen Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 Two dates isn't dating. Dating implies habit and you're not there yet. Skip snap chat and talk for real or risk being another orbiter. 1
spiderowl Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 You mention she was the one who usually initiated convos. Did you initiate them in equal or similar measure? What about texting - were you texting her too or was she texting and only getting an occasional response? If she was doing most of the initiating by text and conversation, she may have felt it was too one-sided and given up.
mortensorchid Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Meeting halfway is acceptable for these kind of things, what isn't is when someone is going to cross state lines for someone. And when it's not being reciprocated is when you realize this is not what it's cracked up to be. But that's a separate issue which may not show itself.
Inspire Posted July 5, 2019 Posted July 5, 2019 Yea, that two-hour drive would get old really quick. At least for me it would. Been there done that.
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