vesperverona Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 I have had a crush on my neighbour since I was 13. Not that I actually knew who he was or anything, but he looked super cute. Ever since we have been texting for short periods of time, always wanted to meet up, but never did. I was way too shy back then and always ditched him. When I was 15 we saw each other at the bus station every morning. But we never had time for more than a hug and a good morning. When I was 16/17 he got into a relationship with a girl from my class that I got along with pretty well, but cheated on her at her birthday party with her best friend and it turned out he has had another girlfriend behind her back for a couple of months now. Out of the blue he started to hang out with my guy best friend, he always wanted for me to meet him, but I did not want to, he has hurt my "friend" pretty bad and you know she would have killed me at school if she knew I was hanging out with him, so I denied. When I was 18 my guy best friend and I almost got into a relationship but I ditched him and we did not talk to each other for a year. It was then that I decided to download tinder and who did I match with? My neighbour. I was out of school and his ex girlfriend and I did not like each other that much anymore after we spend a week in Sydney together, so.. He asked me about what had happened between me and my best friend and invited me to dinner afterwards. I kinda realised how weird it was to date my best friends friend shortly after I had ditched him, so I ghosted him. Then I got into a relationship with a guy whose best friend hitted on me first and he was hanging out with a lot of guys that I had either hooked up with or texted to and after a couple of months, he started to hang out with my neighbour and my best friend as well and it was just super weird. We weren't a match and I ended it after a couple of months. In the meanwhile my best friend and I got to be friends again and he told me that my ex, his best friend, my neighbour and he were hanging out a lot lately. My neighbour and I matched on tinder once again and we texted for two months straight. But again we never met up, we always wanted to but it never happened. He stood me up oftentimes. Like it was no real thing and then at a party I made out with this guy and realised later that he was one of his best friends, which was ofc super weird and so my neighbour never texted again. I cried. I ended things with his friend, bc he had told people I was a slut. Apparently, at least that's what my best friend said. It kinda doesn't make any sense, bc he had asked me if I was still a virgin, bc I did not sleep with my ex or my best friend. I was not, but I did not sleep with him either. A month later or so my neighbour texted me if I calmed down. I was pissed and did not text back, he unmatched me on tinder but wished me all the best for my birthday three weeks later and asked me when we would finally grab that pizza. I dont get him. We wanted to meet up on Wednesday but he was tired. Whats his deal, why does he keep texting me?
smackie9 Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 Who cares! The guy is bad news...he's a serial cheater. You should have blocked him a long time ago. Tip: anyone who is a serial cheater, is a great manipulator...and that is what he is doing to you...he is messing with your head to break you down, make you vulnerable to the point you will sleep with him. that is how this guy rolls.
d0nnivain Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 Agree that he's bad news. Find somebody else to date.
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