Springsummer Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 (edited) So, I talked to this person for about 1-2 months. We were both kind of dragging our feet in meeting each other. We had good conversations in the app. so we finally managed to meet a couple days ago. He was tall and good looking in person as in pics. but but...he is really stingy. he ordered a drink and looked at the menu and saying price too high and he needed to save to renovate to sell his condo, blabla...I ate before I came and just ordered my drink. then he mentioned he once visited HK and some asian women/girls took a photo of him without his consent and he was pissed off and then he said why they did not keep him (you know like rich men pay beautiful women as companies) as asian are rich. I, myself have never thought I could be for sell. and when waitress came asking 1 bill? I said 2. so I paid for myself. so when he contacted me after the meeting I said we are not compatible. Are men all like this nowadays (cheap and for sale)? or just him? unfortunately they are deal breakers for me. even my original intentions wasn't serious, but he lost all appeal, even physical appeal to me. Looks like emotional and physical are inseparable to me. even he is good looking, but I really don't find the desire at all. Edited July 4, 2019 by Springsummer
basil67 Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 I'm sorry you had a bad date. In answer to your question, all men are different...just as all women are different. 1
Flame Aura Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 No not all men are like that... that's part of dating.. not going to meet your perfect match straight away. 1
I'veseenbetterlol Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 So, I talked to this person for about 1-2 months. We were both kind of dragging our feet in meeting each other. We had good conversations in the app. so we finally managed to meet a couple days ago. He was tall and good looking in person as in pics. but but...he is really stingy. he ordered a drink and looked at the menu and saying price too high and he needed to save to renovate to sell his condo, blabla...I ate before I came and just ordered my drink. then he mentioned he once visited HK and some asian women/girls took a photo of him without his consent and he was pissed off and then he said why they did not keep him (you know like rich men pay beautiful women as companies) as asian are rich. I, myself have never thought I could be for sell. and when waitress came asking 1 bill? I said 2. so I paid for myself. so when he contacted me after the meeting I said we are not compatible. Are men all like this nowadays (cheap and for sale)? or just him? unfortunately they are deal breakers for me. even my original intentions wasn't serious, but he lost all appeal, even physical appeal to me. Looks like emotional and physical are inseparable to me. even he is good looking, but I really don't find the desire at all. First off cheap/stingy men are a total turn off for me (dated one for 2 months). Second: not all men are stingy! I'm not a gold digger at all, but my man does pay for things (we alternate). I would AVOID AVOID AVOID!!!
chillii Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 Butttt, you ate before you went , obviously to save money and not waste it on the night in case you happened to not like him. Maybe he wasn't too a taken by you so the first thing he thinks too is l'm not wasting any money on this, But anyway nope , everyones different not all stingy or for sale, actually l dunno anyone would sell their soul for women. l know a few that'd do anything for their woman or spend their last penny on her , that've been together 30yrs and she'd do the same, but not be bought, that's different. 1
littleblackheart Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 So, I talked to this person for about 1-2 months. We were both kind of dragging our feet in meeting each other That doesn't sound like a good start, tbh. It didn't seem like there was a lot of interest from either of you. In any case, you asked for a separate bill and handled it just fine. No regrets. 2
Curiousroxy86 Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 if we really believed all men are like that we wouldnt bother dating shake it off 2
Author Springsummer Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 He was just cheap on himself. He wanted to eat but didn't like to spend. I already told him I was full. I told him before this we could go for a coffee, but he didn't like it. I often go out for lunch on Friday with colleagues and easily spend money on drink and food on myself. He msged me after that saying I left too fast and could have came over to his place. He asked me if I liked to cuddle...lol
d0nnivain Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 Just chalk it up to you two being incompatible. A date is like an audition. He didn't get the part of your BF. Next. 1
chillii Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 (edited) He was just cheap on himself. He wanted to eat but didn't like to spend. I already told him I was full. I told him before this we could go for a coffee, but he didn't like it. I often go out for lunch on Friday with colleagues and easily spend money on drink and food on myself. He msged me after that saying I left too fast and could have came over to his place. He asked me if I liked to cuddle...lol Well he was gonna try sleeping with ya anyway but hey l think ya did the right thing, he sounds a bit strange tbh Edited July 4, 2019 by chillii thought l better be a bit more polite and change idiot to strange haha
smackie9 Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 If he didn't think he should spend the 20 bucks on a burger, he didn't have to broadcast it you know what I mean? He was just so negative and a downer, knit-picky...that = unappealing. He's probably a big complainer about OLD and how it's not working for him, when in reality IT'S HIM! lol 2
olivetree Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 then he mentioned he once visited HK and some asian women/girls took a photo of him without his consent and he was pissed off and then he said why they did not keep him (you know like rich men pay beautiful women as companies) as asian are rich. What do you mean he said they did not keep him? You lost me here.
alphamale Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 what do you mean he was "for sale"?? was he a gigolo? wtf 1
Author Springsummer Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 What do you mean he said they did not keep him? You lost me here. you know how rich men could have sugar babies? rich women could have the same thing.
Author Springsummer Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 If he didn't think he should spend the 20 bucks on a burger, he didn't have to broadcast it you know what I mean? He was just so negative and a downer, knit-picky...that = unappealing. He's probably a big complainer about OLD and how it's not working for him, when in reality IT'S HIM! lol That is exactly what I meant. You summed up nicely. 1
alphamale Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 you know how rich men could have sugar babies? rich women could have the same thing. they already do
Author Springsummer Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 I was just wondering if I am being too critical and picky. Judging from the comments so I am not. damn, it's just hard to find a good man now.
Author Springsummer Posted July 4, 2019 Author Posted July 4, 2019 they already do but seriously, would you like to be a sugar baby to a rich woman? This is my main point of this threat: Are men generally willing to be a sugar baby?
elaine567 Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 What do you mean he said they did not keep him? You lost me here. I am guessing it was his idea of a joke.
alphamale Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 but seriously, would you like to be a sugar baby to a rich woman? This is my main point of this threat: Are men generally willing to be a sugar baby? I would do it for a while, just to try out the exotic cars and gourmet food 1
olivetree Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 I am guessing it was his idea of a joke. I don't even understand the sentence in this context.
Flame Aura Posted July 4, 2019 Posted July 4, 2019 I don't even understand the sentence in this context. Agreed. I have no idea what OP is going on about with sugar baby etc
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