E-Squared Posted July 1, 2019 Posted July 1, 2019 I have a story to share. A couple of nights ago, I was at a music store that is going out of business. I see this attractive young woman. I was browsing and the girl commented on my T-shirt. We engaged in a small conversation. I even thought that maybe I could try to get her number or something, but then I choked. I felt a bit bummed, but I told myself when an opportunity like that comes again, just go for it, even if I would get shot down (I have been shot down before and I took it well). Any examples on your end?
LuckyM Posted July 1, 2019 Posted July 1, 2019 I think this happens more than you realize, but we call it shyness or hesitation or anxiety. It has happened to me many times, years ago, and I got over it.. Just remember that the chances of actually seeing her socially were probably low anyway. Liking your shirt is nice but that doesn't mean much, at all. I would not ask out a girl based on that alone. So what? Recently, I met a woman working in a store and we chatted a bit--she liked me and I wanted to ask her out, but hesitated again and again. When I went back to ask her, she was no longer working there. Seize the moment??
Author E-Squared Posted July 2, 2019 Author Posted July 2, 2019 I think this happens more than you realize, but we call it shyness or hesitation or anxiety. It has happened to me many times, years ago, and I got over it.. Just remember that the chances of actually seeing her socially were probably low anyway. Liking your shirt is nice but that doesn't mean much, at all. I would not ask out a girl based on that alone. So what? Recently, I met a woman working in a store and we chatted a bit--she liked me and I wanted to ask her out, but hesitated again and again. When I went back to ask her, she was no longer working there. Seize the moment?? I get where you are coming from. But like I had noted, we engaged in a bit of a conversation and I had thought of that. Even if she would have shot me down, I would have been fine with it. I'll remember next time to just seize the moment.
alphamale Posted July 2, 2019 Posted July 2, 2019 I used to hit on random women out in public but I stopped. Too embarrassing and rarely was successful. But i'm pretty successful with women I know or am aquainted with...
loversquarrel Posted July 2, 2019 Posted July 2, 2019 I used to hit on random women out in public but I stopped. Too embarrassing and rarely was successful. But i'm pretty successful with women I know or am aquainted with... I prefer to get hit on by women I dont know when I'm out that way I know I've succeeded.
alphamale Posted July 2, 2019 Posted July 2, 2019 I prefer to get hit on by women I dont know when I'm out that way I know I've succeeded.
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