bluesfan Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Guess I was trying to be more polite than saying she was slutty, but that sounds pretty accurate. They gave us name tags and she didn't have much clothing to put it on. When I talked to her she got really close to me and I can't say I wasn't tempted since it's been about 10 years since my last kiss, but that's not the kind of person I want to date. The Asian one was pretty and we had some things in common, but I just didn't care much for her personality. She hardly smiled the whole time. The other ones would giggle or make funny comments and she was so serious and quiet the whole time. Talking to her was like pulling teeth. I'm shy like that too, until I know the people. With only 4 women there you really should have talked to the Asian more. I personally would have tried befriending her while the guys are focusing on the other 3 goals. Might have actually had a better shot at getting a date that way too. I myself would have. Might get a date out of it. You haven't been on a date in 10 years you have nothing to lose. I would take her over a slutty girl. How old was this Asian lady?
preraph Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 I do kind of think that if people are part of a meetup event, they should all at least say hi to everyone, you know. Otherwise, what's the point? It does help to have a good host who gets people talking. It's an art. My last meetup group was just ladies for brunch. This one woman came in later on and just never shut up but it was a big enough group if you were strategic, you could sit at the opposite end of the table and still hear yourself talking to your neighbor. The meetup leader got tired of it and disbanded the group and offered to give it to anyone to run, but no one wanted it. I guess the group I enjoyed most was an actual paranormal group, but then two people joined who just stayed off topic about boring stuff and just ruined it for me.
Author max3732 Posted June 30, 2019 Author Posted June 30, 2019 Otherwise, did he look and talk like a typical person or was he like Ralph from the Simpsons? Otherwise he was like a typical person. Just kept to himself. He was very good at bowling so I even tried to talk him up a bit.
Author max3732 Posted June 30, 2019 Author Posted June 30, 2019 I'm shy like that too, until I know the people. With only 4 women there you really should have talked to the Asian more. I personally would have tried befriending her while the guys are focusing on the other 3 goals. Might have actually had a better shot at getting a date that way too. I myself would have. Might get a date out of it. You haven't been on a date in 10 years you have nothing to lose. I would take her over a slutty girl. How old was this Asian lady? Of course I talked to the Asian woman quite a bit. I tried to spend as much time as possible talking to all the women there since I'm very rarely around single women my age. Fortunately I have been on dates in the last 10 years. I just haven't been able to get more than 2 or 3 dates with the same person and move on to being able to kiss her. I probably could have gotten a date with any of the women there, but I didn't care much for any of them.Match shows you the profile of the people at the event and the Asian woman is around 30. If I'm not romantically interested in her I don't see the point of asking her out.
Author max3732 Posted June 30, 2019 Author Posted June 30, 2019 I do kind of think that if people are part of a meetup event, they should all at least say hi to everyone, you know. Otherwise, what's the point? It does help to have a good host who gets people talking. It's an art. My last meetup group was just ladies for brunch. This one woman came in later on and just never shut up but it was a big enough group if you were strategic, you could sit at the opposite end of the table and still hear yourself talking to your neighbor. The meetup leader got tired of it and disbanded the group and offered to give it to anyone to run, but no one wanted it. I guess the group I enjoyed most was an actual paranormal group, but then two people joined who just stayed off topic about boring stuff and just ruined it for me. There used to be a dinner group where we'd all get together and try different restaurants, but it eventually fizzled and it wasn't only singles. If that was still going on I'd definitely try it again. It definitely helps to have a good host for any of these.
preraph Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 There used to be a dinner group where we'd all get together and try different restaurants, but it eventually fizzled and it wasn't only singles. If that was still going on I'd definitely try it again. It definitely helps to have a good host for any of these. What surprised me about the ladies meetup eating out group was that it was called a Dallas group but I was the only one actually living in Dallas that was attending, so they kept putting the locations further and further out of town. So I was surprised that they couldn't get enough people just from Dallas so it would be more local, more chance of seeing people outside the events, etc. I guess not many people participate overall. I may try a different restaurant group sometime because my main entertainment is eating out. I would start one except that it does seem like a pain. At that last one, you could see how many people signed up for a brunch, which would be a dozen, but then each time, only about 7 actually showed up. So it's hard to make reservations when you don't know who's coming.
smackie9 Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Go to meet ups that would interest women, like wine tasting.
alphamale Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Go to meet ups that would interest women, like wine tasting. I run a dining out meetup. We had an event last night, 4 women and 2 men. I almost always have more women than men 1
bluesfan Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Of course I talked to the Asian woman quite a bit. I tried to spend as much time as possible talking to all the women there since I'm very rarely around single women my age. Fortunately I have been on dates in the last 10 years. I just haven't been able to get more than 2 or 3 dates with the same person and move on to being able to kiss her. I probably could have gotten a date with any of the women there, but I didn't care much for any of them.Match shows you the profile of the people at the event and the Asian woman is around 30. If I'm not romantically interested in her I don't see the point of asking her out. Man. 30 years old, good looking. I would have been all over her. I see why not. Did she look like those Moranbong girls? You had a great opportunity there. Nothing for ten years? Man I would have seized the moment. LOL if I was in a relationship with one I'd ask her to wear one of those Moranbong hats in bed.
bluesfan Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 I run a dining out meetup. We had an event last night, 4 women and 2 men. I almost always have more women than men Are they hot girls too?
alphamale Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Are they hot girls too? once in a while, but most are older single women post divorce who are in their 30s, 40s and early 50s. Last night I had a pretty 31 year old PhD who was new to the area.
bluesfan Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 once in a while, but most are older single women post divorce who are in their 30s, 40s and early 50s. Last night I had a pretty 31 year old PhD who was new to the area. 30s is perfect for me or even 40s. I prefer under 30 because I like em young lol really young. I would take a 45 year old too if they have money I'm there dude!! The 31 year old Dr sounds nice. 31, has money hell yea! Hook me up!!!
bluesfan Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Alpha, sounds like you have a nice group going. What state is he in? If it's FL I'd like to join this group!!!
alphamale Posted June 30, 2019 Posted June 30, 2019 Alpha, sounds like you have a nice group going. it is a nice group of singles who enjoy dining out and eating at new places. I have made a number of great friendships. 1
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