Guest Posted September 25, 2005 Posted September 25, 2005 I met a friend on the internet over a year ago, and we've been becoming closer and closer, a couple of weeks ago I flew across the world to meet him, and had an awesome time. We connected immediatly on a physical and emotional level and I felt really happy and loved. The thing was I knew he liked another girl too, but I guess I thought I it didn't matter. I could see in his eyes and actions how he felt. He also knows this other girl from the internet, and she's a good friend of mine. When I got back I told him I'd fallen for him, and he told me he loved me, that it wouldnt take much for him to fall in love with me, but for now he's totally into her, although he's attracted to me. The thing is that I know she doesnt feel the same way at all, she really doesnt want him as any more than a friend, she's not attracted to him at all. I'd be perfectly happy if they did get together, because I'd like to see them both happy, but I know its not going to happen. She wants me and him to be together, she thinks we'd make a great couple and she'd be really happy if we did. Oh and she's interested in somebody else. I know for now I just need to see what happens, he's one of my closest friends, we tell each other pretty much everything and we are the best of friends. What I need to know is do you think that after he gets over her, which ultimatly I think will happen, that he will want me? We were great together, I'd never felt like that before, and although I don't want to be 2nd best I know it would be great. I wouldn't want him on the rebound, I'd want to know it was for real, but honestly I don't think he could have been as he was if we hadn't cared for me and been attracted to me. I don't know, I'm just very confused.
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