giganto Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 This girl that I know (hang out a couple of times) asked me for lunch tomorrow. But the invitation came from weird circumstances. Yesterday, a guy asked us lunch. I said yes and she said yes. I cancel it at later time with the guy. I don't feel like I want to talk to her anymore because she's just a teaser. I lent her my bicycle a couple months back. Suddenly yesterday, She 'lost' her house and bicycle lock keys. She leaves for holiday on Monday and asked me just cut my bicycle lock and bring it back. I was upset because she borrowed my bike but this is the way she returns my bicycle. I said to her that you can cut it when you are back. Suddenly, the keys was 'found' by our friend and he put it on a board. It's just very 'accidental' and knowing her, I think she capables of doing this kind of stunt. She called me after this asking for lunch tomorrow. I said yes but now I am thinking twice of going lunch with her because of her hot cold behavior from previous actions. Should I cancel the lunch?
Beendaredonedat Posted June 23, 2019 Posted June 23, 2019 Go but tell her "she pays since she did the inviting." ... or don't go if you are so ambivalent about going that you need to start a thread to figure it out.
d0nnivain Posted June 23, 2019 Posted June 23, 2019 Whether you go to lunch or not is up to you. However you want the lunch to be a date but it's not. It's just 2 people dining together. She does not want to date you. Do get your bicycle back before cutting her out of your life or you may never see it again.
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