ascofield Posted June 21, 2019 Posted June 21, 2019 Hey everyone, Sorry for my english, I'm french. I've met a girl at my work and she seems nice. We've been flirting a bit but I have noticed that she kinda likes to chat with a lot of guys. We work in a high school. I know she gave her snap to some high school students at work (17-18 yrs old) She's 23. I was a bit puzzled that she did this. She had already told me that a student had send an invite to her on facebook and she told me that she will refuse. However, when I saw her facebook page, I saw that her snapchat was displayed on her PUBLIC page, for everyone to see. Even thought she knows that some (male) students look for her on facebook. Do you think it's normal to put her own snapchat on her public page for everyone to see? Or do you think (as I do) that she put it to give it to as much guys as possible, including the high school students ? FWI, she's not the slut type, she's more like the discreet, nerdy girl but she is still cute.
mortensorchid Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 That's not smart on her part to do that, share her SnapChat or any social networking with coworkers let alone students in a school setting. People can and will take things and run with them, even something that's supposed to disappear in 24 hours. So you're bothered by this? I would steer clear of her to begin with if she is sharing so much with others. And, even though you are in France and I'm in the US, I will say this again even though we have certain cultural differences : coworkers are NOT FRIENDS. It's easy for you to think that they are because you spend more time with them than you will with anyone else, but whatever you do, do not befriend coworkers. Have your need for friendship and love outside of the workplace setting. If and when you are ever asked to join in on lunch or anything outside of the workplace with coworkers, always plead a previous engagement and say thanks but no thanks. Keep to yourself. And don't share too much about yourself in chat with them. Just don't.
kendahke Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 She's 23. Do you think it's normal to put her own snapchat on her public page for everyone to see? Yes--at her age, yes this appears to be normal behavior. Or do you think (as I do) that she put it to give it to as much guys as possible, including the high school students ? Does it really matter why? A whole lot of young people, male and female, put way too much information out on social media--for whatever reason. It's a youthful folly. If it bothers you this much, then stop dealing with her.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 In what capacity does she work at the high school, OP? I would be concerned about the lack of good judgment and professionalism here, and what that says about her character in general.
SmartDude Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 If she is working in a high school and giving her SNAP of all things out to students, I would go ahead and hook up with her right away. Won't be long before she is locked up for having an affair with an underage kid and you'll miss your shot with her. She should really just be left alone as obviously this is every guys high school fantasy is to have sex with one of the teachers. Good for her, I hope she pulls it off. And yea get in there if you can.
Logo Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 Ask her for her phone number tout de suite (I used a translation website). Don't miss your chance. She's clearly not ready for a relationship. Sorry.
d0nnivain Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 Normal . . .sort of. Young people are very free with social media but have no meaningful understand of how much private stuff they put on display. Since you are employees at a high school, it is unwise for her to be "friends" with children on her social media. She needs better boundaries. I'm surprises it's even allowed. I was an adjunct university professor (taught part time 1 class per semester). We were prohibited from connecting with the students on social media while they were enrolled in the school.
doyathinkso Posted June 22, 2019 Posted June 22, 2019 Apparently she likes dick pics. Especially from younger boys. This is one girl you should steer clear of.
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