schlumpy Posted June 27, 2019 Posted June 27, 2019 I’ve been dating a girl for a couple of weeks, she’s pretty affectionate and the sex is great. She’s also VERY generous and a good communicator. But she’s also really type A and I’m not sure I’m that into her personality. I don't see you taking a big risk by giving this more time. I find her qualities as you outlined them attractive along with her obvious intelligence. Instead of viewing her planning activities as controlling, she could be trying to demonstrate a level of commitment to the relationship. The deal breaker may come when you tell her no or when you suggest staying home with popcorn and a movie when she has some grand adventure planned. Will she adjust her boundaries or get angry and insist that her desires should triumph. That's when you will know to pull the trigger or not. Best Wishes
preraph Posted June 27, 2019 Posted June 27, 2019 Oh, well. She sounds extreme on one end and you are extreme on the other. You'll have to find someone who is at least in the middle.
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