Trying online dating again. Waste of cash? Not working.

[bluesfan]

You need to rethink your attitude because it's extremely objectifying. Most women will feel your lack of respect in the way you talk to them, act around them, even the way that you look at them. The type of woman that you are looking for honestly wouldn't let you in 100 feet of her. I think you need to reconsider your approach because online dating, or the demographics of your town, are going to have a far smaller impact on your dating life than an objectifying attitude will. You are asking all of the wrong questions. Sorry I'm trying to be real with you because if you actually want to attract women, you need to look deeper than the surface and seek to understand and appreciate the person inside.

And for God sake stop obsessing over the moranbong girls, they are the epitome of oppressed women. They are the personal all female band of Kim Jong Un, they are basically the property of North Korea and by extension Un's property, and I can only imagine what they must have to go through to end up in the position they are in. Nothing about it is glorious and that you see them as a blueprint for your ideal woman is really concerning. They smile because they are conditioned to & they do what they are told.

 

I mean The Marshal I'm sure gets to plow them. Hes obese and ugly and gets the hottest women in his country.

 

Us men here have to work hard to just get a date while he is just handed any woman he wants.

 

These seem really humble though and look feminine. I mean not big muscles and all like some western woman. I don't like females with muscle and too toned like many our. I like a feminine traditional women roles.

[guest569]

^ oh for goodness sakes. Looks like crispy's post went way over your head. The way you talk about women is disgusting.

[TheFinalWord]

Here is another video with some of them the B team in it.

 

 

I would never admit I liked that ever, anywhere, online, and especially in real life. I feel less cool just for watching 5 seconds of whatever that is...

[nospam99]

Moranbong! This sub-topic should go to Water Cooler! I am SO digging this and continuing to LOL. Love the western style choreography and staging. And the uniformly, segregatedly seated audience adding the hand-clapping for percussion! Are the dudes (second row left in the jpeg) the lyric, staging, choreography, and audience instructing team? How many days does it take Kim to work his dick all the way through the ladies? How bad do either the gals or the dudes have to f-up to get shot .... or kicked off the team and back the labor camps?

 

This Kim is like third-generation 'fearless leader' (who besides me remembers Boris and Natasha?). Has he been trained from birth to expect any NK woman to be his sex slave? Was it his own idea to set his harem up as a Las Vegas revue?

 

Kim became fearless leader in December '11. The 'NK Spice Girls' started performing in July '12. Coincidence? I think not! Obviously the whole idea of this scenario is going to have me ROTFL for a while. I don't watch Southpark unless my kids bring an episode to my attention. Anyone know if the show has latched on to this meme?

[lana-banana]

If I had an Asian gf like them I'd buy them a Moranbong hat.

 

Do you not realize how appallingly racist that is? Let's try some other examples:

 

"If I had an Asian boyfriend I'd buy him a Mao hat."

"If I had a black boyfriend I'd buy him a dashiki."

 

Generalizing entire cultures, countries, and even continents into a single broad cultural stereotype is ignorant to the extreme. All Asian women are not the same. People (from any country, for that matter) do not exist to satisfy your fetishes. If you are looking for a woman whom you can objectify and treat like a doll/sex object, you can pay for the privilege with an escort who specializes in roleplay. But no self-respecting human is going to date a man who treats her this way.

 

Also, as crispytoast mentioned, it's kinda horrifying that your fetish involves women who are literally oppressed under a dictator and forced to perform to protect their families and their own lives. That might be something worth unpacking with a therapist.

 

I typically recommend people spend some time actually trying to get to know somebody and appreciating them as a person, but you don't seem interested in actually appreciating a person at an individual level, so I'll say it again: get an escort.

Edited June 30, 2019 by lana-banana

[JuneL]

OP: I think if you have a gf like that, you should get a high cut hairdo and wear a Mao suit to look like Kim Jong-Un

[chillii]

This threads crackin me up , no fkg idea what's goin on maybe ya gotta be American to get it.

 

 

Anyway , as you were

[Happy Lemming]

I feel less cool just for watching 5 seconds of whatever that is...

 

Same here...

[bluesfan]

I would never admit I liked that ever, anywhere, online, and especially in real life. I feel less cool just for watching 5 seconds of whatever that is...

 

 

What's wrong with them? Pretty women in nurses hats wearing short skirts with nice legs. What is there to hate about it?

[crispytoast]

Save your cash for the moranbong sex robot that will come out in the next decade because I can guarantee that online dating isn't going to work for you.

[bluesfan]

Save your cash for the moranbong sex robot that will come out in the next decade because I can guarantee that online dating isn't going to work for you.

 

 

There are very few to select from around here. I have to look 90 miles away in Tampa for a larger pool.

[crispytoast]

Are your parents by any chance related?

[JuneL]

Save your cash for the moranbong sex robot that will come out in the next decade because I can guarantee that online dating isn't going to work for you.

 

Can he not get a blowup doll now?

[crispytoast]

You'd have to put a nurse hat on it but I suppose that could work.

[bluesfan]

I'm gonna try to say this as nicely as possible, ok? The issue here is, you have thoroughly creeped me out. We all got little fetishes and what not, but your obsession with a very specific type girl being oppressed and forced to perform for her dictator is rather disturbing. You are over there targetting specific types of women so that you can basically turn her into these little sex slaves you see online. The fact that you double down on this is equally disturbing. If you come off this creepy on online dating as you do here, it is no wonder why you are having no luck.

 

 

Btw from what I've read in interviews and such, the Moranbong girls are top of the class over there. Girls are jealous of the Moranbong girls when they're picked to be in the band because only the best get picked.

 

 

 

Being a Moranbong girl is a good thing. Famous, get to live in Pyongyang, etc.

 

 

 

It's not a slavery thing. That's BS. It's not a fetish dominance thing. I really like them because they look sexy.

[bluesfan]

Since my region within a 60 mile radius is a dating desert, at least online options, should I expand and maybe look up to 100 miles away? Even if you find someone willing to go out would that be a big risk getting stood up or it doesn't work out and you end up driving 100 miles away wasting the gas and your entire day. Would something like that really even work out long distance?

 

 

Or should I eventually move to Tampa where it's much larger population and younger demographics?

[rightondude]

man you just need to do what you gotta do and take whatever you can get at this point

[Sam2020]

 

At work today I saw it yet again. I saw a hot milf maybe mid 20s carrying her little girl around literally and her guy tagging a long was about 45, little chubby and balding head and overall didn't look in good shape. So how the hell do balding men with a beer belly get these younger, hot chicks and I'm in better shape, younger and get none? $$$$ must be a factor.

 

Have you ever considered that she could just look much younger than her age and he could look much older than his? Perhaps she was in her 30's and he was in his late 30's. And perhaps he has a lot going for him personality wise, maybe he treats her well and is kind.

 

Years ago I dated a guy 5-6 years younger than me and EVERYONE thought he was much older than me.

[bluesfan]

The online sites are addicting. Like the thing is I log on match everyday just thinking all these new, legit profiles will start popping up with people to message when in reality it's mostly the same ole people I see month after month on there at all hours of the day within a 70 mile radius of me. Same profiles, profiles stay active a couple days then vanish, etc. No variety, hardly anyone new to see. My county like 5 active women in the 18-45 age range on there despite 250k people in my county.

 

 

 

Should I start looking like 90 to 100 miles away in Tampa?

 

 

Another poster from Northwest Floriduh says FL is a dating desert. If this region is bad I would really hate to see what the rural Pan Handel is like. Might have to try Farmer's Only up there.

[bluesfan]

Just got a reply back on Okcupid! Some little cute chick and she's only 25 miles from me. I wrote her and mentioned stuff in her profile and she replied back asking about my business and what I do and such. She has a graduate degree too but at least is talking normal and not slutty like that professor did on there.

 

 

She replied to my reply so that's good. She's offline now though so who knows how long before she logs on, but that's a good sign though getting a reply and she replies back. Again she has a hot face, cute but only about 5-1 or so so she's 8 inches shorter than me.

 

 

She's 4 years younger than me too.

 

 

 

The other thing is people always say I look too young for my age, especially coworkers and such. I also get carded 80 percent of the time too and it's embarrassing going out and the waiter ask to see id lol.

 

 

 

Like for example on the search filters I'll put like 18-43 for example. NO I don't message 18 year olds but just put it in there anyway. I did chat with a 19 year old but I think it was a fake match profile because it disappeared two days later lol.

 

 

 

When I get replies it's always usually women about 4 to 10 years younger than me. Well, once I got a reply from a girl 4 years older than me and she wanted to chat more but never replied since.

 

 

So why is it mostly women a few years younger than me or never my age or older? It seems the 24 to 31 age range is who replies the most to me or want to meet up.

 

 

Should I still focus one ones closer to my age or a bit older or stick to younger than me since that is where I actually get likes and replies from?

[bluesfan]

Well I just got another reply back this time on Match from a local Japanese cute chick. She read my message yesterday morning and viewed my profile but didn't reply until just now out of the blue. I guess I could try making her into a moranbong girl. The other one teaches English to non english speakers and has taught Koreans. Would it be a good idea to ask her what she thinks of North Korea?

 

 

I mean on match I've maybe sent close to 150 hundred messages since April when I signed up. I'd say maybe 90 or so were seen the rest never read or fake profiles that are suddenly deleted. Getting about 10 replies is that about normal out of 90-100? This cute Jap chick is only 3 years younger than me.

 

 

Most of the replies I get are from above average looking ones. I don't message the fat ones.

[bluesfan]

So the little chick I've been talking to on OKC replied back again tonight. She has a masters degree and teaches ESL and taught abroad English to people in places like Korea and Indonesia.

 

 

 

Anyway we have been basically chatting about her career and how she teaches online courses as well and mentioned how she's wanting to design her own teaching materials to sell and such and since my degree is in business she took interest and was asking me about business type of stuff and marketing and such.

 

 

I did a reverse image search of her profile pic and she uses the same pic on meetup.com and is a local organizer of a walking group and is also a member of other local meetup clubs as well and has the same name as well so she looks legit and not a fake profile.

 

 

She also gave me her cell number tonight. The number is local and checks out as a cell number.

 

 

So should I start texting her? She lives 25 miles away from me, but on meetup.com lists my town as a place she likes to walk, hike at. So maybe I can get her to drive 25 miles and meet up instead of me having to.

 

 

How long she we text before I ask her if she wants to meet up?

 

 

I told her I'd text her when I get off work tomorrow night.

 

 

She has a pretty smile and all too. Only thing is she looks to be only 5 to 5 foot 2.

[nospam99]

Jeezus, blues ... 'talking to on OKC'? All that is is a f--king OLD message. And you have her phone #? This is not rocket science. Send her one more OKC messages asking a) if she's okay switching to text b) and when are good times to CALL HER ON THE PHONE. And then ... CALL HER ON THE PHONE. And then set up a face to face meeting. I hope you can figure out how to take it from there.

[JuneL]

Just text and ask her out, and treat her to something inexpensive. Be respectful, as this is something lacking in your posts.

 

Personally, I wouldn’t call her, unless you’re at least 55yo. I would prefer not to waste my time talking on the phone.

[bluesfan]

Just text and ask her out, and treat her to something inexpensive. Be respectful, as this is something lacking in your posts.

 

Personally, I wouldn’t call her, unless you’re at least 55yo. I would prefer not to waste my time talking on the phone.

 

 

I hate talking on the phone myself and she said text her. Besides, most younger people text mostly anyway. Don't see people on the phone talking a lot.

 

 

Btw are these Meetup.com events any good? I've never really been on the site before but just hear it's where people meet up and do stuff.

 

 

Do they post pics of people attending? I mean, being southwest FL I wouldn't want to waste time drive 30 miles to meetup events and it's all people over the age of 55 years old unless they have a hot daughter they could introduce me to lol.