an0nym0us123 Posted June 20, 2019 Posted June 20, 2019 At the beginning of last week I went on a date with a girl from tinder. She's been on tinder months but only now got around to meeting. She lives over 2 hours away but we have a lot in common and I find her very attractive. We met half way for a walk to some waterfalls. She was very talkative and actually kept me talking at the end longer than I had intended. Her body language was hard to read other than she was very chatty. At the end she kissed me and we said goodbye. When she got home she messages me to say how good a time she had had. I wasted no time and told her straight I'd like to see her again. She was very happy. I said I'd contact her in a few days and organise something as I did not know my schedule. 2 days later she initiated contact to set up at date with me! So we set up a date for the weekend just passed. We went for dinner and another walk as the sunn set. It was really good. Lots of laughing etc. we spent near 5 hour together. At the end I went in for the kiss and we kissed for 30 seconds before saying goodbye. Before I could drive home she had messages me telling me how good it was. The next day we texted back and fore and I asked again when she was free. She said a week night this week or next. Shes away this weekend. We set a date for tonight to meet half way again. The conversation got very sexual etc. i hear nothing for 3 days then today she messages me to tell me she has to cover at work for her sick friend and has to be on call all night (medical profession) but in the same message proposes 3 different nights next week. So I reply and say that's a shame but i gave her the night I thought was best for me. She said she had been looking forward to kisses tonight as I promised her after our last date there would be plenty! Due to being on the road when she texted me earlier I haven't actually agreed with her what we will do next Wednesday. All I know is we have agreed on that date. Should I text her on Monday to make plans or leave and see if she will? She rarely messages me other than to set dates which is fine but also makes me wonder how interested she is. Sometimes she takes a while to read or reply even though I know she is online.
kendahke Posted June 20, 2019 Posted June 20, 2019 Set up the next date. Take up any questions in person when you see her. Stop living in the future--live in the now.
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