Last straw?

[Feeling paralyzed]

I’m really at my wits end. I love my boyfriend and I’ve been with him for several years and in many ways we are good for each other. But he behave sometimes in the matter I find very troubling. It’s come up a few times and he knows how I feel about it.

 

Specifically in the past I learned that he used his elderly father’s credit card to pay for some things for himself but he was out of work and these things weren’t essential and he paid for those charges from his own money after I found out and made him told him it was wrong.

 

Fast forward to now his dad in a nursing home and Medicaid and I learned that he got his dads security deposit back from prior living facility and my boyfriend put it in is own account.

 

That itself is not terrible if he somehow put it aside for his dad since his dad will need money for extras if that’s not covered under Medicaid. I know his dad recently told him he needed money in his nursing home account for extras he says he’s dropping off a check tomorrow for a portion of the money. He says taking the rest the money and putting it in his own savings account since his father is not supposed to have any other assets and I don’t see an issue with it except he hasn’t done it yet. It’s been a few weeks and I’m suspecting he plans on using some or more of that money for his own bills towards months and otherwise why week? He barely breaks even each month with his bills. He wants to move in with me and I’ve always worried I could be next. Is this a realistic fear? Is his actions in moral enough to finally leave him for my own protection?

[d0nnivain]

Your BF's moral compass is broken. His behavior may have crossed over into Medicaid fraud. His unauthorized use of the dad's credit card was outright fraud, a crime.

 

Proceed at your own risk.

[Gaeta]

Continue doing nothing. You've posted this dozen of times and you make no change so the status quo must suits you.

[alphamale]

you need to dump this chump and find a guy with a decent job making good money

[stillafool]

You already know what he is and is capable of and yet he's still your bf. Carry on.

[Redhead14]

You can't change him. What you can change is you and how you handle this. You know that your boyfriend is a POS. You are now complicit in this mess and in your own misery. Get out now before you become his next financial "victim".

[smackie9]

Hmmmmmm this thread looks awfully familiar.

[chillii]

God yeah, l dunno why people do this stuff , l mean wtf. lf they're legit why not just keep hashing it out in their original thread.

[preraph]

To get his father's check, he's having to commit the felony of check forgery. Your boyfriend has no morals and is going to end up in prison. You should notify authorities on your way out the door.