Mayaiana Posted June 15, 2019 Posted June 15, 2019 We're coworkers, he was flying to go to a wedding. I texted him "Dr referred another patient" he replied after he landed "nice what is it" i said "i spoke too soon, patient had to pay 200" he said "oh well" then sent another text "it's muggy and sticky hot in Houston" I asked "how was the flight?" he said "it was fine, sat next to 300 pounder and watched lucifer." I said "Lol gather up your energy now and get ready to party he replied "Rall!y!" I said or for better choice of words yes rally lol. This was our first time texting non-work related, do you think he tried to keep convo going by talking about weather? Also, was my response okay to "Rally!"? i didn't know what else to say. Were my responses okay?Did it seem like I wanted to end the convo?
Beendaredonedat Posted June 15, 2019 Posted June 15, 2019 Oh my heavens. Simmer down now gurl. It was a text convo that was neither a positive experience or a negative one. It was vanilla and you would do well to not obsess over it. What do you want with this guy? Are you both single? Why are you appearing so anxious over such an innocuous communication? 1
d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2019 Posted June 15, 2019 Stop. Text messages are for quickly conveying brief amounts of information. They are not for having a conversation. You can't build a relationship through text. Don't even try. Second it was banal small talk. It means nothing. Try not to read tea leaves when they aren't even there. When & IF this man asks you on a proper date, you can assess his in person behavior. The rest doesn't matter.
smackie9 Posted June 15, 2019 Posted June 15, 2019 Nothing wrong with whatever was said. Let things flow, relax. You will make things more awkward FOR YOURSELF overthinking it.
Author Mayaiana Posted June 15, 2019 Author Posted June 15, 2019 Nothing wrong with whatever was said. Let things flow, relax. You will make things more awkward FOR YOURSELF overthinking it. It's because i didn't know what he was trying to say by rally but i'm glad my response was okay. Did it seem like i was trying to get out of the convo by telling him to get ready and party? Also, since he diverted from work topic was he trying to prolong the convo and i ended it early?
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