Tagalz Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Hey! The last girl I blew off was also fat. She didn’t take any iniative and now I recently got a match with another girl who is like average/fatish I’m just not attracted to those kind of bodies. I like more average body type girls or fit girls. Like everytime I see a fat girl I think they are unhealty and that they eat like 10 burgers a day. Also what happends under sex? My penis would get smashed. See my point? It seems like I’m hating on fat girls but trust me... I try to appreciate them because they might have had another dating experience compared to fit and average body girls. Can someone help me seeing it the positive way instead of negative?
alphamale Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 I thought everyone in Norway was white and skinny? 5
Beendaredonedat Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 You need to tighten up the settings on your dating profile so that only the type of girl you want to be with is matched with you. I think normal sized people tend to call themselves "average" so maybe you ought to take your chances and restrict your matches to only those women that note themselves as "fit" or "thin" or "athletic" but don't be too surprised if those girls don't start a thread with complaints similar to your own about the matches they are getting. O.o 1
frus69 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Why do you swipe right on them? If you dont swipe right you wont match them Why do you have to force yourself to like fat girls? Why not just date fit girls ? 2
BaileyB Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Well, with any luck your ship will come in and you will match with the woman of your dreams soon... only then, she may decide that you are too fat/short/not funny enough/have a crooked nose... Such is life... 4
gaius Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 You could look at it like this. Somebody has to date the fat girls so everyone else can have thin and fit women. Think of it like you're the crazy guy from Independence Day that (spoiler) flies his plane into the alien ship so others can live. You're a hero. Maybe we should make a new mount Rushmore with Meghan Trainor and Amy Schumer's husbands, whoever Khloe Kardashian ropes into marrying her, and you. It would be a fitting honor.
Gretchen12 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 I don't know what site and how the match algorithm works. But you don't have to go out with them. It's just a match. You can ignore. I used to be average earlier this year. I think I'm fat now...
rightondude Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 some girls are bigger than others and they need loving too. The same way you and I and every other guy swipe right on the 10/10 models thinking we stand a chance with them, these gals are putting it out there thinking a dude might be cool with it or even prefer a rubenesque lady ... and some dudes ARE under that mindset big is beautiful. Heck I prefer curves to bones myself. 1
alphamale Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 I knew a guy who was good looking and skinny, he loved bigger women, the bigger the better. Some type of fetish I suppose
Marty7787 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 some girls are bigger than others and they need loving too. The same way you and I and every other guy swipe right on the 10/10 models thinking we stand a chance with them, these gals are putting it out there thinking a dude might be cool with it or even prefer a rubenesque lady ... and some dudes ARE under that mindset big is beautiful. Heck I prefer curves to bones myself. Me too. Having sex with a slim girl is horrible, you can feel every lump and bump where slightly bigger girls it all blends in. About a size 12/14 is perfect in my eyes, curvy without a big belly. 1
lurker74 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Marilyn Monroe wore a size 12 Just sayin. I've got nothing against curves, but MM was actually closer to a size 4 than a size 12. Sizes have changed dramatically and if Norma Jeane were shopping today, she'd need a size 4 with forgiving fabric to accommodate her ample bosom or a size 6 if she wanted more room around her hips. And OP...just don't date someone you're not attracted to. That's simple. Besides, I only came here so I could say "ample bosom." 4
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 I only came here so I could say "ample bosom." :lmao::lmao::lmao: 2
alphamale Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Marilyn Monroe wore a size 12 Just sayin. but she was HOT HOT HOT
Blip86 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Why don't you restrict body types in your profile settings? I'd say if you don't want fat chicks, remove 'average' from your profile too - some women are very creating in describing themselves just saying 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Like with most things in life, one's definition if what often gets you into trouble. Your definition of an "average" body type is another person's anorexic. I mean, what really is "average"?? What makes someone "average" sized? And who wrote the book on it? I agree with the other posters who said (1) tighten up your preference parameters and (2) if you're still getting women you're not attracted to physically, DELETE! No one is forcing you to swipe right on them for heaven's sake. I have no idea what YOU look like but all too often people who make the most noise about things have much to hide themselves. Just saying. 1
gaius Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Heck I prefer curves to bones myself. About a size 12/14 is perfect in my eyes, curvy without a big belly. Thank you for your service gentlemen. You will not be forgotten. 1
Partymix19 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 What is your size? Maybe your pictures make you look heavy so algorithms match you with bigger women? 1
Atwood Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Why make so much noise about it? You interacted with women you’re not attracted to, shock horror!! Move on and keep looking if you’re not interested. Real life dating is being in a sea of people you wouldn’t date and trying to find the needle in a haystack of ones you would. I don’t know what to tell you other than learn to be easy-going about encountering fat people, as I’m sure they’re gracious enough to put up with you. 1
stillafool Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Marilyn Monroe wore a size 12 Just sayin. Yes but that would be about a size 8 in today's sizes. They changed the size scale to not make overweight people feel fat. Back when Marilyn was alive I don't think they had sizes 0 and 00. Who the hell wears a 00? Can they even see themselves if they turn sideways. 2
Partymix19 Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 Yes but that would be about a size 8 in today's sizes. They changed the size scale to not make overweight people feel fat. Back when Marilyn was alive I don't think they had sizes 0 and 00. Who the hell wears a 00? Can they even see themselves if they turn sideways. And yet, I bet you’d love a woman with a 26” waist.
Happy Lemming Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 fat girls need love too Yep... I've dated women of all sizes and shapes. From 98 lbs. to 305 lbs. From 4' 10" to 6' 2" and I've enjoyed myself with all of them. No complaints, here!! 2
stillafool Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 And yet, I bet you’d love a woman with a 26” waist. No, I'm a woman who loves men. I'll take one with a 36-38" please.
Normm Posted June 13, 2019 Posted June 13, 2019 You could look at it like this. Somebody has to date the fat girls Not true. Nobody has to date fat girls. In fact by doing so it is enabling their unhealthy lifestyle by not incentifying obese women to ear well and visit a gym regularly.
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