Author kscholze Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 sams - you got it man. I cant stand this woman anymore. I ignored her and she came back with "u mad at me, baby" so I broke down. NOT ANYMORE. Samski you are the poster child for getting over a break up man. glad you are here. So you dont ever respond? What does she follow up with when you dont respond?
samski3409 Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 dude, i only learned from making plenty of mistakes. i tried N/C a number of times with her and failed a lot before i finally i got it right this time(i think). usually she'll say something to the effect of "so i guess you're doing okay then" or "u must be very busy" but lately she's been kinda quite.it makes it a lot easier,but i know she will pop her head up again. she always does!
samski3409 Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 let me just tell you one more thing kscholze.the key for me being able to really start to move on and practice strict N/C was that i got to a point where i was just so fed up with her crap that i had to do what was good for me. i could no longer think of her as this special person that deserved all my love and attention.i was finally done with it all. it sounds like you're just about there yourself.use that disdain to get over the hump and get on with what's good for you.
Author kscholze Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 I have finally figured that out samski. I will never contact her again, she is a coward and will text me in a few days (thats how she broke up txt) in which case I will tell her to never contact me again, or just not reply. I think if I tell her that she will leave me alone, and if i ignore she will text again. or she may not text me ever again anyway, **** it who cares.
brittanyjean259 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 ks, do you not want her contacting you?
Author kscholze Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 I dont want her contacting me if she wants to keep confusing me. I would rather get on with my life than try to de-code what she says to me. the only thing that happens when she contacts me is - she says she loves me or something to that effect but she cant be with me right now. THen I get hurt again and have to deal with the pain all over. she can call me when she has made a decision
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