Naomi32 Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 There's a guy i like and thought he liked me too. He's flirted with me in the past. I suspect he knows i like him as well. Anyways, I was a party last night and he was there and he totally ignored me..like didn't even say hi to me. Anyways, I was sitting with my friend and than these 2 girls came in and sat near me and my friend and all of a sudden the guy gets up and comes over to them and starts flirting with them big time! "Good evening ladies, can I get you girls a drink?" I was so disgusted and hurt ... I mean I was sitting right there and he hadn't even acknowledged my prescence. I figured he's totally not interested but my friend says he was trying to make me jealous. What gives? What do you think?
d'Arthez Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 Whether he is interested in you, or not does not matter. If he is not interested, it ends right there. And if he were interested, and thought that making you jealous is a mature way to approach you, you are simply better of without him. Also, the lack of manners (to at least acknowledge your presence) is not shining favorably on him. If you would end up in a relationship with him, these "testing" behaviors would not be likely to disappear, and probably even get worse - in short it would be wise to forget about him then too.
fusangite Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 There's a guy i like and thought he liked me too. He's flirted with me in the past. I suspect he knows i like him as well. Anyways, I was a party last night and he was there and he totally ignored me..like didn't even say hi to me. Anyways, I was sitting with my friend and than these 2 girls came in and sat near me and my friend and all of a sudden the guy gets up and comes over to them and starts flirting with them big time! "Good evening ladies, can I get you girls a drink?" I was so disgusted and hurt ... I mean I was sitting right there and he hadn't even acknowledged my prescence. I figured he's totally not interested but my friend says he was trying to make me jealous. What gives? What do you think?Men are not that subtle. If he's unsubtle enough to approach those women so ostentatiously, he's not subtle enough to be organizing some kind of jealousy-based long game.
Copingsaw Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 fusangite is dead on. We just don't think like that. Complicated games are not in our nature. Based on the limited information you gave us, it seems that he is just not that interested.
Swamp Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 Uhm. Men are absolutely that subtle. I run games like that all the time. I suppose we are in a cesspool of people clueless as to how to properly play the dating game, though. Don't count him out of the picture yet. Don't aggressively pursue him, but definitely say hi to him the next time you see him. He may have been trying to stir your emotions a bit.
RainyDayWoman Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 you've only said that you like him and you thought he liked you, and that he's "flirted with you in the past." in that case, it doesn't sound like you have anything going with him, so maybe he honestly wasn't even thinking about you or your reaction.
fusangite Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 Uhm. Men are absolutely that subtle. I run games like that all the time.And how's that working out for you? When is the last time you had sex with a woman?
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