kmmalone Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 Ok, so here is the story. I met this guy about 6 months ago, and ever since then, we were inseperable. Our personalities just clicked, we were able to tell what the other was thinking. I can picture myself being married to this boy. Unfortuatley, aside from all the good, there are a lot of bad. He is an alcoholic. He has definatley controlled his drinking, but it is still at a serious level. He is unable to hold a steady job, which I think is part of the drinking. He has no responsibility, as he still lives at home and has no bills or anything to pay. There was a last straw the other day of him missing work because he decided to go to a friends house to drink and didnt have a ride back the next day. I finally was so fed up, I broke up with him. This is the hardest thing I have ever done because I am still so in love with him. I think back on all the things that he did that frusturated me, and that makes me think I made the right decision, but then i look back at everything else, and it kills me inside knowing that I don't have him anymore. I just need some advice......Thanks
amerikajin Posted September 24, 2005 Posted September 24, 2005 I certainly think you did the right thing. He seems like a nice guy, but it seems like he didn't have his s*** together. I find it interesting that you referred to him as a 'boy' in your post. I have the feeling that's how you saw him, as a boy and not a man. Tough for a lady to fall for someone she doesn't see on her same level.
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