BaileyB Posted June 5, 2019 Posted June 5, 2019 Apparently incredibly beautiful based on pictures I have seen. I have actually seen, snow, attempted to dive into it, my mistake it was probably only 20cm thick so the outcome involved a very muddied face. Lol. Well, you come to Canada and you won’t have that problem.
Foxhall Posted June 5, 2019 Posted June 5, 2019 Basil and Bailey that is good advice there, sometimes a bloke can get stage fright on the date,or if they are shy naturally it can lead to awkward moments. an alphabetic guide to help keep conversation going trigger the brain, and being curious as you say, getting mileage out of it, good stuff.
Author ZA Dater Posted June 5, 2019 Author Posted June 5, 2019 you've still done incredibly well with all these women at least you know you can get dates you'd have to nail someone great sooner or later at this rate. Don't really feel like I clicked with her but we did get along fairly well. The surprising thing for me re the bold is I actually don't really worry if I never find someone great, years past this used to keep me awake at night but it doesn't anymore. Perhaps now that I have had two decently nice experiences part of me is just saying "well ok this is nice but its not really what I ultimately want". The issue really is age, a 35 and a 37yo are at places where they want to settle down, I don't really want that so it seems selfish to waste their time. I do not really know what I want so its very difficult to actually look. The riding instructor appealed because she has this very assertive confident personality. Its like I enjoy the chase more than the final result so I think I realised the result actually doesn't matter, so what if the pretty brunette on Tinder doesn't match with me, does it change my life, not really. Likewise, so what if riding instructor doesn't talk to me, do I really care, not that much actually. I guess stupidly I am just holding out for someone I do find truly amazing. My issues will always be present so I know deep down even if I did find that person I'd have to consider it an accomplishment to have a conversation with them and expect nothing else because I probably wouldn't be their type anyway.
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